What Men and Women Want…Changes As They Grow Older
This is solely based on my observations. I would welcome any opinion that could clarify and contribute more meaning to my following statements::wink:Women in their 20s desire men around their age who are good looking, funny, clever and financially stable…the perfect guy.
Men in their 20s desire women who are older, confident, financially stable…a mother figure whom they could get a lot of experiences from.
Women in their 30s desire men who are clever, financially stable, not so funny will do, not too good looking will do…stability and security matter most.
Men in their 30s desire women who are of the same mental, emotional , physical and financial wavelength. She has to be confident , good looking and knows how to carry herself…someone he can be proud of and raise a family…picture perfect marriage
Women in their 40s will accept men who are less financially stable, less good looking, less funny, less clever but will gladly opt for better option in the offer.
Men in their 40s desire women who are a little bit younger but the “been there, done that” type. She has to be confident, clever, funny, witty , good looking , emotionally and mentally stable….and financially independent.
Women in their 50s plus plus…many will tend to desire men who are much younger, less financially stable but quiet good looking, can be fun, not clever and not educated will do as long as they are young, physically active and gorgeous…but if common sense prevails, many will choose to stay single and enjoy their carefree lifestyle and freedom
Men in their 50s+ plus plus…many tend to desire women young enough to be their daughters…hot and sexy will be fantastic, she doesn’t have to be brainy…doesn’t have to work…he will be more than willing to give everything she desires but those who have wisdom and "old enough" to know what’s good for them will opt to find companionship with someone he has a lot in common with.
Ok, ok, I know, I know....please don't take me seriously...the above are just my own observations and assumptions:
Comments (107)
But...but...but we seem to be wanting the wrong person?
could be the reason why so many of us are unhappy
yeah!
and if the right one comes along...then go for it!
sometimes we need somebody to knock some sense into out thick head...
we just have to learn things the hard way...and why is that?
"when I was younger"...when was that? in your 20s? 30s?
I always like a man who's a little older than me...one that I can't wrap around my little finger
I wish all "older" men are like you...that kind of maturity and common sense could save them from a lot of unhappy
I disagree...I believe a man and a woman's needs varies with their age...those men and women who are in the age of raising a family would certainly look for that woman/man that they can be proud of to call his/her wife/husband and mother/father of their children
Yes!
not to mention the cleaner, the washer, the cook...
so I guess that explains why many "old men" are looking for younger ones...that's because women of their age are done caring, cooking, cleaning for them!!!
Trust me on this...young girls are dreamy...they dream about the perfect prince charming...they're too young and inexperience to know the things that await them.
But just like the rest of rest, they will learn it the hard way...and some could be harder and tougher than others
Experiences what make us who are now
I know you're having a laugh here but I certainly have no interest in getting up close and sharing fluids with anyone under forty
Luckely things goes a bit better with them nowdayes. The one surtant thing they never did before was to listening to what I told them...
Not before they had experienced things themselves. Then they came back with a bit different wiev, and wanted support.(that I offcourse give them, as their my dearest ones)
sensible, sensible
now if women 50s+ don't want to be with men 50s+, ain't that a little unfair to them?
Could this be the reason for many divorce and separation at older age?
does that mean that men should learn to care, cook and clean for himself?
whatever happens to "till death do us part"?
Yes most men love their daughters/children but not many have enough time to know their children and understand what they're going through
(and there are still things I learned the hard way, that they don`t have a clue about...)
whatever happened to that special bond between a man and a woman? Must have something to do with equality and women's liberation
Yes, I've heard so many men out there can care, cook, change nappies ...is it by choice? or they simply have no choice but to do it?
wouldn't it be wonderful if we go back to that old fashion relationship where a man is tougher and the provider while the woman is the softer one and his comforter?
Financially stable, I would never even think about, but I do like a man who works.
Looks...I would have to fancy them, then and now.
As for age, I always kinda fancied men about my own age, or a little younger....and still do
The best we can do for our kids is to equip them with knowledge and let them feel that we will always be there for them...they should experience the rest by themselves...that way they could shape their own personality and live the life they want
Man who works is good for me...just enough for us live comfortably.
As for the looks...at certain age, it did matter to me but nowadays,I simply consider it a bonus
Younger men....not for me, not even for a day
Quite the opposite in fact.
I like a man who is capable and confident both inside and outside the house.
That doesn't mean that we can't spoil them and take care of them.
But when two people work, as most couples do, I think it's only fair to share housework too.
we've been evolving from day one, I but I think there's some kind of emotional and mental mutation that happened along the process
Are we really happy with our role in our current social norm? Is it the best for humanity?
I think everyone has different definition of the word "MANLY". Just like like you, I consider a man manly if he's confident inside/outside the house. If he can stand up for his partner/woman/relationship and keep it together for better or for worse.
Working together is ideal for me too but I won't mind giving him my softer side after a long hard day.
Anyways, are you inclined toward the youger and more supposedly virile? I have not checked your profile. My guess is 35ish?
Poor you
Maybe about time you eat some libido-boosting foods and stay away from that 3 dollar buffet meal