immigrant love

What do u think about a women ( immigrant ) , and she love someone , and she have do anything for that guy, guy love her to , cos her boyfriend want marriage with her , so before marriage he want give a women car , insurance , etc. so a women tell her boyfriends , she is immigrant and do not have a greencard etc. a women tell her boyfriend about his secret , but he say he can not accept. A sad women heard his boyfriend say like that , so that women say , she can't being his girlfriend or partner .

Is a women ( immigrant ) is wrong say like that with her boyfriend ?
What about that boyfriend ? her boyfriend love her ?
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Hello Xi,

Welcome to the blogs.

From what I got from your story, it sounds like this is a very difficult situation for everyone involved. I think honesty is the best policy. Hopefully their love is strong enough for each other and they can find a solution.

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Hi. If this was true love, then it would not matter if she was an immigrant. If she pretended to be a citizen first, and this was not true, then I can understand why the boyfriend might be suspicious.

In my country men have married foreign women thinking that they loved them only to find out that they married them to stay in the country, and then divorced them afterwards.

I married a Chinese woman, but she did not live here when we began to date. Then she moved here after we decided to marry.

This was a better way because we first loved each other knowing we were not of the same country and culture. Afterwards, we decided which country to live in.

It is wrong for anybody to not be honest with another person from the start. Honesty is always the best policy. Otherwise dishonesty leads to distrust and suspicion, and no relationship can last while there is little or no trust and while there is suspicion.
I'm not sure I fully understand the question. When in doubt, though, stick with honesty. It's always going to be the best in the long run! And if it loses you someone - were they worth having? sad flower
thanks friends for your answer...

I am not use google translate lol... I know my English is so bad... so sorry about that...
and thanks for your correction.

she have fiancé in USA, but that fiancé want she going to USA with him to, so she going to USA. after that she live in usa. she know fiance have another girlfriend. and than fiancé going with other girlfriend..

that immigrant in my blog is not me... lol
this story about someone. she don't want leave USA. she want marriage but not for citizen reason... as I know she reason is she want marriage for someone who know her, and love her to.
I tell her "go back to your country I don't want troubles!"hole
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