Ideal Man, Ideal Woman…or Settle for 2nd Best
When I was younger, my Ideal Man was tall, dark ( Tan or Brown skinned) nice body and handsome. He has to be not more than 3 years older, clever, have a good job and financially very stable, the faithful type - someone who can be trusted and love me with all his heart. There was no way I would settle for less than that “perfect” man.Well, I did get my “ Ideal” man… it lasted for 10 years and I have no regrets
Now that I’m matured and older, lived life…"been there done that" phase , my ideal man is someone very matured, thoughtful, understanding and one who will be there for me for the rest of my life. How he looks and body shape still matter but not that much . I’m a shorty but I do like tall men, at least 5’10”. I still like tan or brown- skinned men, hairy chest but not the mustache.Someone who looks good in any type of clothing and comfortable enough wearing an old T-shirt and tight boxer underpants. Men who always wear ties and Tuxedo rarely appeals to me. Someone who has a regular job or any decent source of income, no debts and not running from authorities, living a simple and healthy life will be perfect for me. . I don’t like rich men nor those who are overly successful and making a lot of money – like those who are making at $ 150,000 +++/yearly… … they never impressed me, they tend to be controlling, high handed and they’re usually the decision-maker, makes me feel they own me and I have no say in anything Am I asking for too much?
In order to find our ideal man, we have to be that ideal woman first. We don’t always get what we want, sometimes we have to settle for second best. When it comes to partners, boyfriends or girlfriends…would you settle for second best ? Will you keep on looking for your ideal man/woman and take the risk that you could end up alone, lonely bitter old man/woman one day ?
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I've lowered my standards so far in the last year that hell I could match up with anyone. ANYONE. They only have to be handsome, kind, rich, clever, amusing, witty, tall, charming, faithful, loyal, and madly in love with me, and I'm happy.
This kind of reminds me of a song!
" If you can't be with the one you love. Love the one you with...
That's if you have somebody to be with.
right! it could be very saggy but not all rich men are that saggy...
You lowered your standard!
Got dog!....
so what is your ideal man?
I can take a hint.
I'm not 5'10" and I make too much $
So, I'm out of contention for your standards.
Oh well.
You're wrong
There's always someone perfect for everyone...he might not be perfect for others but he could be perfect for me
occasional mustache will be fine...as long as he doesn't rub them on my most sensitive parts
That Is Not Your Business.
PS. I missed you!....
miss you too
now, tell me...what is your ideal man? and make it clear to Johnny...
that would be my peaks, neck, knees, thigh and back
That's Not Your Business.
great in the sack please elaborate....
come on, it's just a blog...tell us that way our men here could know if they have a chance or no...
what do you mean ?
Whew!......
I only have about 3 hairs on my chest.. I think,
and sometimes just for fun, I pluck them.
Anyways, I don't meet your standards. Have a nice day!
yes, it happened to me...
___ NO!
of course there are the other elements like his cologne, we don't want to be constantly swarmed by flies. His car, we need to comfortably fit the hand-bag. His ex-wife, who needs to be amicable and far away
that can be easily remedied...there's plenty of hair grower shampoos out there...they said the best one is from Canada...
beside, you're not very rich...and not running from authorities so you're still in the game
I don't think that! You are anybody type.
Sorry!___
yeah...that's great, sounds like my man...he always make sure I'm the first one...
So do the clever ones
How about a guy that cares for you, shows you and comes home to you. Someone that works and brings home the money. Someone who is responsible. Why does he have to be as you picture him?
If he isn't as you imagine him is that second best? That kind of guy may just be "1st best"!!
yes, that guy too...he is also good. If he cares for me...then he's the best...caring means he values me, I would love that
Some just don't try.
who was that man? Very rich man will have no time for us and will tend to get every woman he fancies...that's not good
I just want a poor man who will be willing to work hard and be there for me...I'm working too so we won't go hungry
ex-wife...this rreminds me of my BF, every time he remembers his ex-wife he has that forbidding expression on his face that always makes me laugh He seem to hate her cos she's still receiving money from him He said when they split up, they fought over the cooking pots and other kitchen utensils...I told him he should just gave them all to her...he said it's not about the cooking pots but it's because of her greedy ways. We agreed that when he dies, the cooking pots will be buried with him
He really close like you describe.. He is tall 183cm, he is just 5 years older than me, he is Caucasian, nice body and handsome, clever, has very good job, financially very stable, someone who can be trusted, and honest..
he seems very ideal...you're very lucky!