"TIME WASHES CLEAN" ("BUT NOT THE MEMORY")
I Must Come Clean here(Pardon The Pun)So You guys Will Know What I Was Really All About When I First Came To Connecting SinglesI Got involved With A girl(I wont say Where She was from)And Ive Always thought That I Was Keen About These matters And I Couldnt be taken...WRONG!!!!!
We talked On Yahoo messenger For 9 Months Straight(Every Day!!)
I mean..This was it!!
I Had finally found That Woman!!..I Was convinced(Or Should I say..She Convinced me?)
I saw Where she was on The video..The other girls That Worked there in The same city as She did(Theyd All go There On Their day off which was Sunday)...I Even saw The pictures Of Her in front of A church(I Know..Its just a picture)
And every once in a While She would Look sad And id ask Why On yahoo messenger..,And it aslways Was About money That She didnt have(And yep..Id send her Some..just a small amount)..Sometimes we Dont want to think The obvious Because we dont want to be Alone
Anyway (Cutting to The chase)
In The End I get a message from Her friend there in That city That She got Caught And Didnt have her Passport And Was In jail..But The friend didnt know That I didnt know her real name And
told me
"--------" Is In jail and needs bail to get out.."What!!! Thats her real name?!!!..Whats going On here??..Total Confusion For me...(And That Pain We all get In Our stomachs When The Paranoia Hits us)
At this point all those "Little bits of money" Id be Sending her For the Last 9 Months had added Up to Just under 2000 Dollars..And I Didnt have Anymore She Had gotten it all(Real Dumb a** Nam)..And thats What I told her girlfriend
Well..I think you All Know the rest of The story
Its been a year Now
And you know What The "Kicker" is?
Shes Still on This site!!
Why?
Because What was done to me Was off Connecting Singles And theres no way to prove Anything
(It Isnt About the money you Know)(Can Always Make The money back)
(Its about How Youre left feeling After..(Devastated And Destroyed!)
(And Thats A killer To get Used To)
But Then Again..Im Just a Man(Human)
But I havnt lost my faith In Women
Im Just gonna "Keep On Keepin On"
(But not sending money Anymore)
Marlon Brando said "Everyones An Actor"...and hes right!!!
This Woman Should get An Academy Award" For Best Actress"
Anyway..Thats My Story
And now..You all Have a different view About This Guy "Namaron"...(Im Not What you might have Thought..Am I?)
Its Been A While Now ..Since all of This..and ill Survive..And how do I Know This?
Because
........."Time Washes Clean".........
(Even I..At My Age........I Shouldve known better)
Comments (35)
But u said I was an actress as well, and I am not false!
After awhile he found out that instead of actually being matched up with an actual date/match it turned out to be the employees of that particular site.
He tried to sue the owners of said dating site but was told that he should had known better than to take that chance.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are going to help out people here with it. The way your story sounds, this could happen to anybody. Thanks for making us a little smarter.
that's a very bad experience, I'm sorry it happened
yes, you should report it
I think you deserve some respeckt for beeing just who you are!
I Already Did That Months Ago
And as Ive heard from others Here and there
"Nothing happens"
And The "Bad Guys" are still Here...............
I Know What you mean
And this being a free Site
I Dont Want to push it too far
Maybe What goes around ...Will Come around........
Yeaah...Never thought of That
Maybe by telling This Story
Others Will be more alert
We can All be vulnerable And refuse To see The warning Signs When we are Alone...................As I Was......
You are My "Pit Bull"
Get Em Leony!!....................
(Thanks for your Concern Leony)
Sometimes you have to just get it out of your System
And let people know That You Are not What They Might Have thought You Were....................
I already did report it
Months Ago
And Nothing has happened...............
Thanks for the Input
But being myself Cost me 2,000 Dollars
9 Months Of my Life
The Dreams That were Planted In my head (By her)
And The Memory Of Something That Cannot be Forgotten
A Lesson learned very Well................
Teena
Thanks for the Emoticons.................
But when i win the euro millions, i'll see you right
different views??? not atall...
just makes me wanna hug you that bit more
But I Turned A blind Eye To The warning Signs
Which is What People Should not Do..And I Did...and I... (Pardon The Pun)..Paid The Price.................
Hate to Say it This Way
But After What youve Said here
ITs Good To Have company...............
If shes still here, would you not name and shame and maybe make others aware of here carry on?
I dont know What Could happen next
Maybe get thrown off?.................
But just so you know it, your not alone
were all fools on hills in one way or the other.
And better that than being a mole in a hole...
as in underground afraid to come out.
"But Im Not Shaken"...............
Good for you for cutting your losses and moving on
Its not Peace I seek
Its The reasoning behind it
How could Someone do that to someone Is What id like to Know?
Im Past The initial pain
And Have all To gain..................
were all Made differently
I would have to say Im Too Much Of A Softy
Maybe Thats my weakness
Ill Probably always be this Way
But you have a Point
Im Just not one too hurt other people
and Thats my problem Im Sure
Maybe Zsoon nI Will ZZExpose her
Although It Would Have to be By mail....Not On Wwwwwwwwwwwworld Wide television...................
I never cut my losses
She Just Disappeared
And Time Did That for me
But it Would be nice To Know That This person Could feel The initial Pain and shock Of realizing That youve been taken For a Ride...........................
(And refused To believe The facts)...............
Obscure reasons could be that she is prisoner of drugs... not knowing what she is doing... or someone forcing her to do this to people that really wants something special... but really ... how valid can these reasons be and why would you get further involved.... just let it roll ...
"Just Let It Roll"
Yep.............."Down The Highway"...........