First Date Questions Women Really Want To Ask
"Are you emotionally stable?? So, really, when was the last time you sent a d!ck pic? And is your apartment creepy?"?
Tomorrow I'll post First Date Questions Men Really Want to Ask
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Tomorrow I'll post First Date Questions Men Really Want to Ask
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Ladies, are these the questions you really want to ask or do you have more? Mine is, "When is the proper time to release the crazy?
"Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just pleased to see me?"
Although the last blind date from this very site, a few weeks ago, I DID want to ask why he thought having scattered intermittent decaying teeth was more attractive or efficient than getting a set of, at the very least, NHS dentures.
Not really a generally generic question, though, even in Scotland. I truly hope I will never want to ask it again. No date without skype is my new motto.
It is no wonder that so many feel disillusioned.
That is why I chose my life partner from a different society with different value systems and a different perspective and understanding of relationships.
Many women disagree with my choice. For me, after years of western women's 'evaluation' processes, and a failed marriage due to unrealistic expectations (on the part of my then wife) and of those whom I attempted to date post marriage, I went where things were much simpler, much more straight-forward.
It suited me well.
It doesn't matter what questions we ask of each other, what our 'perfect' partner is in our mind. We all change continuously and constantly. The person we all are today is not the same as the person we were 5 or 10 years ago, or when we were 20 years old (for those of us who are past 40). Thus, our perception of our suitable or loving partner will also change as we change.
Attitude (our beliefs), and expectations are what define our relationships, and define what is a successful relationship. Attitude and expectations also define "love" for us in our relationships.
It is our attitudes that will make or break a relationship. Not how honest we are (because none of us are completely honest all of the time - even with ourselves).
There is no 'magic' formula for who we each fall in love with, there is no 'logical' formula for choosing the 'right' partner.
It is the unrealistic expectation of controlling love that causes so much angst. It we want a pet dog - get a dog. People (men and women) are not like a dog and our love has to be based on better things than our love for a dog.
Women, I feel for you in our narcissistic and gender confused society. Men I feel for you in our narcissistic and gender confused society.
People need to understand each other more. Men need to understand women, and women need to understand men. None of us are who we should really be all the time because we each have our own psychoses.
But relationships that are loving, caring and fulfilling can be entered into by all. It is our attitudes, and our need to control our relationships that prevents many singles from finding a suitable partner.