Master and Servant?
I know a bit about the BDSM world. I did some writing on a project about the fetish lifestyle and, consequently, ended up dated a woman who called herself submissive.Everyone is at least a little kinky. Often the ones who seemed the most normal are actually the most bent.
I enjoy a role playing and a bit of kink, but that wasn't what I found fascinating. It was the concept of power dynamic and the question of how much it played into relationships on a level that I hadn't thought about.
The woman who called herself submissive, was proud of it actually, wasn't. What she liked to do was 'top from bottom'.
A true submissive relishes the idea of giving up control and being in the power of someone that they trust.
Someone who 'tops from the bottom' relishes the idea of giving up control, as long as the person who they give that control to does pretty much exactly what they want.
While she wasn't the most self-aware girl I ever dated, she was quite intelligent. And the one thing that she said to me, that years later has got me thinking, was the idea that two dominants can never be happy together.
Anyone want to weigh in on that one?
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Game on. ;)
Gird_Yourself, yes, thats what I mean