marriage is a lifetime commitment

It is a known fact that marriages in eastern societies are more stable and long-lasting than western.
The key to this I think is the fact that couples in east have learned how to compromise with,value one's feelings,liking and disliking and how to get comatible with the partner rather looking for a perfect and compatible partner.
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This is the presentation of a Fait-á-complé
You mean "fait accompli"

It might work in Eastern countries because women don't have the freedom of choice. They just have to put up with each other and compromise but this doesn't mean that they are compatible and that they are happy. :scold
As long as one doesn't get trapped.. And that for a lifetime. The problem is that people get used to their traps. doh
Most women can't or don't want to keep up with those bed time activities once they're married. I guess the marriage contract takes the motivation out of them. It only makes sense to have wives for rotation.
in best case, marrieage might be a lifetime delusion...cool wine
I believe there would be strong benifit to the less than "10" women as well. If a man is only allowed one wife, he's likely to hold out for a 10 even if he's a 7. But if the man could add to his fleet, I'm sure he wouldn't mind adding a couple 6's or 7's for the occasional ride around the block. Everyone would be happier.
Min, I know what I meant laugh
question and answer all in one makes it really a bit pointless really.
Love. .I was just correcting the spelling. professor
ok Min, we'll leave it at that handshake
thanks for "correcting" the deliberate mistake :)
There is absolutely no benifit left for the man.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
How to compromise with? laugh I believe you guys don't have any choice to stay in the marriage to avoid shame for your family members if you two decided to separate or to divorce. In some countries in the east, according in Pakistan, you cannot even decide to whom you want to marry to, the decision is on the hand of your parents or on your big family and it would most likely you would marry someone within your big family's circles doh

The real fact is in the west it is two people married while in the east it is two families married.
Kact, I appreciate your reliance on facts, when presenting the evidence. I too am a fact man. So, enlight of our community in pursuing the truth, we must recognize the blogger's post is expressing generalities. Now if we can agree, middle eastern marriage ways offer greater advantage for the men than western married ways, we can conclude an automatic 50% advantage in support of middle east marriage ways. Obviously only a small percentage of female support is needed to see a happier majority would benifit from middle eastern marriage ways. Instead, in the west, we have a minority of mean single women holding the majority of us from being happily married.

I hope this helps.
wow wow Hi Mr SQUIRREL Yes I see where you are coming from ,after all said and done you don't like dating????And as for the old fogies ,don't kid yourself we are VERY capable and Very HAPPY doh grin
It may have been one of your blogs where I was writing about West's 'Fall of Rome' levels of freedom and this is an example. No-fault divorce became legal and feminism popular in the 2nd century AD and a few generations later Rome was overrun by barbarians.
Kaetchenyonhn
Life is never perfect and ideal any where on this planet.some people in east try to migrate to west for economic benefits and prosperity rather for initiating and raising a family there...They will always love thier culture first..
One thing more I would like to add.I think it does not matter whether thier family members come to see them or some of them are also paying for the services they get at the shelter homes..The question arise why these shelters for senior citizens were being built..what was the need for it...either there is no space for them in their homes to live with their grown up kids or they are no more useful for the society and were being confined to such shelters.where in east they are the king of their families,highly honoured inside the home and also in the society..these are called norms and values and also the strong family system,i was talking about.
You have never been to the west, have you?

Yea, that's the double standard of the eastern people. They hope for mutual respect when westerners are in the east, but when the easterners are in western, they don't have any respect for the westerners and its culture. They think their cultures are the best than westerners, but it does not cover the facts that life quality on the east is not even better than it is on the west doh

In reality, those homes are built to nurture the seniors if they need and if they want to have space for themselves or if they have to stay there because their health condition is slowly deteriorating and those homes can provide them with daily care if their family members cannot provide it for them.

Senior citizens here are NOT not useful as you described, they can still do their activities whenever and wherever they want. They can even still have job if they want to and if they still have the power to do it.

Bear in mind, children on the west have to learn living independently as soon as they are reaching adolescence, while on the east children are usually still staying in hotel mama until they get married. Hint of the day for you to learn is independence.
I have never been to the west...but this does not mean that I have no idea about the west,it's economic prosperity,prevailing rule of law overthere.
but Here the discussion is all about family system,respect and care to the different forms relations the people share like wife-husband relationship,parents- kids relationship etc.All these relations are in very weak form in west.everyone is crying and demanding for his rights,liberty,independence and demands regardless the impact(bad) it would have on the society.honestly speaking I donot want such independence and freedom which destroys the social structure of a nation.
Sure westerners have far better life standard than eastern people but having better living conditions do not guarantee a better social structure.how many incidents are there in west of serial killers,firing in schools etc.This psychological disorder clearly reveals the social disturbances the people facing in west.
You two argue like there is a right and wrong way.
From birth to maturity, people are taught different ways. Their ideas are ingrained into their existence. Unless of course if you're a great thinker like us, kal, people can't change their ways through debate and reasoning. Maybe experience if they're luckywink

Hmm, China. My experiences and interactions here have left me with some hard earned but needed perspective. Currently I'm suffering from wiplash due to the cloning of beauty with miniskirts in this corner of the world. From my western features, the Chinese doctor immediately knew what ailed me and has prescribed horse like blinders with neck brace. I just forgot where this was goingsigh
Oh my partner. No comment grin

Yes, on my walks around china at night, I always see groups of old ladies dancing with each other. It is a very refreshing and pleasant change from what the old ladies do in the US.
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