Man-ism

Hello Men. I want to start out by saying....don't look down on yourself as a person. You are a great person. Unless you physically beat women. Any man who has to resort to physically harm a woman, needs to get help. Any woman who is with a man of this sort, needs to call the police ASAP. No exceptions! She needs to get away from him.

I can only recall one thing about George W. Bush that I liked. (Yeah...he was not my favorite). But, even though he could not get it out of his mouth correctly...when he said: FOOL ME ONCE, SHAME ON YOU. FOOL ME TWICE, SHAME ON ME. I think those are some pretty logical words to live by.

I love all people. I know not ALL women are like this. I am only sharing some stories that I have personally experienced in life, I personally witnessed in life, and that I have personally heard in life. For the men reading this, you make up your mind on what you read and if anything pertains to your personal life. BTW....just because I love all people, that does not mean I do not have any people that I would rather keep my distance with.

As usual, on my walk and on my drive home, my mind was constantly running...especially about this whole female movement we face today as men. I thought of a lot of similarities that I found common with many relationships I know about.

Here are some:

Firstly, I already mentioned the barber story. But, I would like to repeat it. I consider myself a fairly logical thinking person who likes to make decisions based on somewhat realistic/reality-type events. My barber lady told me that her lady friend was seeing this guy while she was married. Both the barber lady and her friend thought....since her husband travels for work, he is probably cheating. So, it is okay for her friend to cheat.

In a long-term relationship, it was told to the man, you are a control freak. Toward the end of the relationship, the woman wants to go out to the bars with her sister. The man thinking he is a control freak, does not agree with that move but lets her go. She waits out in the driveway a couple of minutes before she drives off for the night and not comes home until the next afternoon. Two years after they broke up, the woman tells the guy, "You know, when I waited in the drive way that night, I was waiting for you to come out and stop me."

Another story from the same couple. I cheated on you....for you. It took me awhile to figure out the logic behind that statement, but she was right.

A couple of friends of mine...both are with a woman. The women WERE friends. One of them was a hairstylist and the other one just got a job at a salon. The lady who got a job at the salon had to get her hair cut there to display what sort of work the salon can do. Her hairstylist friend got pissed off. Not only do the women not talk to each other...but the men are not allowed to talk to each other.

Another man I know...he used to be a disco dj in Detroit. I am talking in the past couple of years. Obviously, you have to be somewhat outgoing to be a dj. Now, after he got divorced, he walks around with his head down, just goes out to walk his dog, and hardly says two words.

Another man I know...he is currently with a very attractive girl. All I hear from them is her constantly critizing him. When ever I see him around....I have yet to hear him say one word. To get a woman of that quality, I am guessing he had to be a pretty good talker....now?

You know the old saying, "happy wife...happy life" Really? What about happy wife and happy husband?

Happy wife...happy life, I get it. You keep her happy she will give you some. Hmmm. I question that with the way things are going in this day and age. But, maybe.