Less Attractive Couples In A Relationship...

ARE HAPPIER....than couples who are very attractive and very successful.

Less attractive couple tend to see and appreciate the inner person of each other. Same goes for an attractive person who is with a less attractive partner. Inner beauties, good characters and unique personalities leave lasting impressions than the outside beauty, could be the reason why relationships between less attractive couples last longer than those couple who "have it all". They are settled, content and couldn't ask for anything more. Attractive people who has it all tend to feel they deserve better and more...and have difficulties in settling for less than what they think they deserve so they keep searching for more and easily swayed by appearances giggle

I used to ask my husband, why he wanted me above others who are very attractive. He's quiet a catch and many were after him and I felt he deserve someone way better than me. He told me that I never bore him, each day is a new adventure with me around while those who are very attractive without good personality will easily bore him and many will look at them and they could easily look for someone better than him too. laugh

A good looking Western guy who's married to our friend whom we consider as "ugly" ( and she herself agreed with usdoh ) said that he married her not just because she is funny and nice person but also because she is ugly and no one will look at her and compete with himdoh laugh He feels secure and doesn't worry every time he turns his back...no one will chase hergrin They are comfortable and happy togetherwine

Our neighbor who's "fat" and not attractive is married to unattractive man but they are very happy and very sweet to each other. They have 3 daughters and their home is full of laughters.

Celebrity marriages, those are mostly couple who have it all but their relationship seems shallow and many don't last long. They have it all, they can easily get what they want and easily get bored and look for a new adventure.

I have a BF, he is always grumpy and has big tummy but very attractive and successful. I always tell him to look for someone better than me...he said he's not going to look because there's only one Fruitloop in this world and that's me. I always ask myself, what the f*ck does he see in me? confused doh laugh Maybe because he's comfortable and feel secure that no one else will chase me whenever he turns his backdoh rolling on the floor laughing

To feel more secure and comfortable, I think will have to look for someone with unattractive appearance but with good humor and personality...but I have to get rid of this jerk firstyay

Just trying to make you laugh, don't take me too seriously pleasegrin heart wings teddybear
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How about those guys who think they are absolutely gorgeous and the female world shouldn't be denied a turn with them? laugh

The less the female world seems to notice how fab they are, the more eagerly they will leap at anyone who finally does ... roll eyes
rolling on the floor laughing the best relationships do seem to be where both have chosen qualities other than looks which will last cheering

Should be some fun comments on the blog hug
Johnny,

so do you still want a very attractive girl ? You could easily lose her to someone more hunky than youprofessor laugh laugh


No, I'm not selling myself short...I always wish I'm tallercrying blushing laugh Naah I'm OK with myself, I just need to find a man 5'30 to 5'5 in heightlaugh how tall are you?confused
Legs,

good personalities and inner qualities are always the winner...looks will temporarily reign but not for longprofessor laugh
You can't have a lasting "relationship" (in the full sense of the word) with looks alone. On the other hand, if there is no chemistry, the relationship cannot ever move beyond a very good friend.

Most people that we meet will be in the friend zone. The Stones had a song, "light my fire." Unfortunately there is a shortage of matches. laugh cheers hug
-after a plain-crash all looks the same...cool
Calm,

nobody uses matches anymore...there are lighters now and electricitylaugh


yes, there must be chemistry...but there are some who started without it or one of the partner didn't feel it at first but their relationship succeed...after they have gotten to know each other's inner self and accept it....their feelings and relationship develop and grow stronger each day...and they will become more and more attractive to each otherprofessor cheers
Viking,

What plane crash? I never heard of it....and NO, people don't look the sameprofessor

Are you having a bad day there or what?confused hug
-on the inside we all look the same.cool
Smokers dont Viking. There insides are black and tarry. professor
jaja, if you say so...grin
Well CH...if height is your issue...


What you lack in stature, you more than make up for with your personality. grin (just like the premise of your blog)
Viking,

are you talking about anatomy here? we're talking about personality and relationship...get up and make some coffee for yourself!professor laugh

make it two cups, I'm at work...bored so I'm bloggingdoh laugh
Johnny,

I do have high heeled shoesprofessor laugh I'm 5'2 plus 2-3 inches is not bad at allcomfort laugh You won't be embarrassed to be seen with mehug laugh
LoL!tongue took some time, huhh? Yeah, I`ll make coffee!coffee grin
I should be very happy uh oh
Lucky,

yes....but there are plastic surgeries now...in many clinics there in China...you go in there and come out with a brand new nose in an hour or two...problem solvedlaugh laugh
Viking,

thanks!teddybear hope you didn't put a lot of sugar in it?confused

and I like it milky....very milkywink
I hate it when someone says they love my type. Im one of a kind!
CC,

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Yes, I also know of people who think they are very very attractive...spend a lot of time looking at themselves...and the mirrordoh laugh

I was walking with 3 friends, 2 were ahead and the one beside me was laughing at the backside of the two ahead...she said they have very unattractive backsidedoh laugh I slowed down and looked at hers...she has the worse backside among the 3 of them!doh laugh but I didn't say anythinggiggle
Track,

yes you should be happy dating an unattractive woman...she could be the real gem insideprofessor comfort

how's your rooster by the way?confused I hope it has grown some feathers alreadycheers
My ex-gf was about 5'3" and she never owned a pair of high heels.


embarrassed....confused
Lucky for us, I am only 5' 11"

laugh
Johnny,

5'11 that's too tall for me...you've got be shorter...in some waysprofessor rolling on the floor laughing
.....yeah CH, you are not unreasonable. laugh


and....


not sure where you going with that shorter in some ways comment. help laugh
Johnny,

I wasn't insinuating that you're shorter in some waysprofessor I simply said that you have to appear shorter if you are to stand beside mescold dancing with you will be very awkwarddoh laugh
"someone better than you"?

I think your a pretty swell person and your BF is fortunate to have you!
Thank you, Edbouquet

he say so...I just find it hard to believe himdoh laugh He looks at me differently from how I look at myself, I guesssigh laugh
Hi Crazy blushing

So, you're looking for someone disgusting, err or not so attracting of flies.

I'm right here. grin
Oops,

Crazyheart, I meant,

So you're looking for someone discussing and not attracting of flies? I'm right here. grin

Hmm, or maybe my first comment was correct, depending on what you think of me.. or maybe you don't think of me. uncertain

Have a great day! wine
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Molly,

I don't see him as "fat" he's a big man...with a big tummy but not that bigdoh laugh He's grumpy and too serious and I'm too silly and too crazy for himmoping He should be with someone who's prim and proper...a real lady who follows every rule...I love rule breaking and that's not his way, he's army guy so he grew up following every rulesdoh laugh

as for good looking people who have assymetrical face...laugh that reminds me of Adrien Brody, he's not handsome but attractiveblushing laugh and there are plain looking people that are attractive when you keep looking at them and noticed some of their unique features...and they grow on youwine
Robert,

I could easily fall in love to youscold don't tease me or you'll regret it when I start chasing you...I could be relentlessprofessor

besides, you're too good for me...you deserve someone so much better not this crazy pathetic shorty lunaticsigh hug laugh
Leony,

you're pretty monkey and my gorgeous parrot will be a perfect match...just name the place and whencheers laugh
C, if he wanted to be with someone prim and proper, I'm sure he would be.
He obviously likes being with someone different to himself, so chose a fun person like youbanana
I agree with Molly; in my experience people that are "unattractive" can be just as mean, unfaithful, or cold as the more attractive ones. This kind of surprised me as I assumed they would have developed their heart and personality when they couldn't get by just on looks. Not so! That's why you can never judge a book by the cover. Always read the inside pages. dancing teddybear
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