Less Attractive Couples In A Relationship...
ARE HAPPIER....than couples who are very attractive and very successful.Less attractive couple tend to see and appreciate the inner person of each other. Same goes for an attractive person who is with a less attractive partner. Inner beauties, good characters and unique personalities leave lasting impressions than the outside beauty, could be the reason why relationships between less attractive couples last longer than those couple who "have it all". They are settled, content and couldn't ask for anything more. Attractive people who has it all tend to feel they deserve better and more...and have difficulties in settling for less than what they think they deserve so they keep searching for more and easily swayed by appearances
I used to ask my husband, why he wanted me above others who are very attractive. He's quiet a catch and many were after him and I felt he deserve someone way better than me. He told me that I never bore him, each day is a new adventure with me around while those who are very attractive without good personality will easily bore him and many will look at them and they could easily look for someone better than him too.
A good looking Western guy who's married to our friend whom we consider as "ugly" ( and she herself agreed with us ) said that he married her not just because she is funny and nice person but also because she is ugly and no one will look at her and compete with him He feels secure and doesn't worry every time he turns his back...no one will chase her They are comfortable and happy together
Our neighbor who's "fat" and not attractive is married to unattractive man but they are very happy and very sweet to each other. They have 3 daughters and their home is full of laughters.
Celebrity marriages, those are mostly couple who have it all but their relationship seems shallow and many don't last long. They have it all, they can easily get what they want and easily get bored and look for a new adventure.
I have a BF, he is always grumpy and has big tummy but very attractive and successful. I always tell him to look for someone better than me...he said he's not going to look because there's only one Fruitloop in this world and that's me. I always ask myself, what the f*ck does he see in me? Maybe because he's comfortable and feel secure that no one else will chase me whenever he turns his back
To feel more secure and comfortable, I think will have to look for someone with unattractive appearance but with good humor and personality...but I have to get rid of this jerk first
Just trying to make you laugh, don't take me too seriously please
Comments (38)
The less the female world seems to notice how fab they are, the more eagerly they will leap at anyone who finally does ...
Should be some fun comments on the blog
so do you still want a very attractive girl ? You could easily lose her to someone more hunky than you
No, I'm not selling myself short...I always wish I'm taller Naah I'm OK with myself, I just need to find a man 5'30 to 5'5 in height how tall are you?
good personalities and inner qualities are always the winner...looks will temporarily reign but not for long
Most people that we meet will be in the friend zone. The Stones had a song, "light my fire." Unfortunately there is a shortage of matches.
nobody uses matches anymore...there are lighters now and electricity
yes, there must be chemistry...but there are some who started without it or one of the partner didn't feel it at first but their relationship succeed...after they have gotten to know each other's inner self and accept it....their feelings and relationship develop and grow stronger each day...and they will become more and more attractive to each other
What plane crash? I never heard of it....and NO, people don't look the same
Are you having a bad day there or what?
What you lack in stature, you more than make up for with your personality. (just like the premise of your blog)
are you talking about anatomy here? we're talking about personality and relationship...get up and make some coffee for yourself!
make it two cups, I'm at work...bored so I'm blogging
I do have high heeled shoes I'm 5'2 plus 2-3 inches is not bad at all You won't be embarrassed to be seen with me
yes....but there are plastic surgeries now...in many clinics there in China...you go in there and come out with a brand new nose in an hour or two...problem solved
thanks! hope you didn't put a lot of sugar in it?
and I like it milky....very milky
Yes, I also know of people who think they are very very attractive...spend a lot of time looking at themselves...and the mirror
I was walking with 3 friends, 2 were ahead and the one beside me was laughing at the backside of the two ahead...she said they have very unattractive backside I slowed down and looked at hers...she has the worse backside among the 3 of them! but I didn't say anything
yes you should be happy dating an unattractive woman...she could be the real gem inside
how's your rooster by the way? I hope it has grown some feathers already
embarrassed....
5'11 that's too tall for me...you've got be shorter...in some ways
and....
not sure where you going with that shorter in some ways comment.
I wasn't insinuating that you're shorter in some ways I simply said that you have to appear shorter if you are to stand beside me dancing with you will be very awkward
I think your a pretty swell person and your BF is fortunate to have you!
he say so...I just find it hard to believe him He looks at me differently from how I look at myself, I guess
So, you're looking for someone disgusting, err or not so attracting of flies.
I'm right here.
Crazyheart, I meant,
So you're looking for someone discussing and not attracting of flies? I'm right here.
Hmm, or maybe my first comment was correct, depending on what you think of me.. or maybe you don't think of me.
Have a great day!
A monkey for your troubles
I don't see him as "fat" he's a big man...with a big tummy but not that big He's grumpy and too serious and I'm too silly and too crazy for him He should be with someone who's prim and proper...a real lady who follows every rule...I love rule breaking and that's not his way, he's army guy so he grew up following every rules
as for good looking people who have assymetrical face... that reminds me of Adrien Brody, he's not handsome but attractive and there are plain looking people that are attractive when you keep looking at them and noticed some of their unique features...and they grow on you
I could easily fall in love to you don't tease me or you'll regret it when I start chasing you...I could be relentless
besides, you're too good for me...you deserve someone so much better not this crazy pathetic shorty lunatic
you're pretty monkey and my gorgeous parrot will be a perfect match...just name the place and when
He obviously likes being with someone different to himself, so chose a fun person like you