Two pennies worth

We are a live-for-the-moment society, we take what we want, anything goes and everyone is up for grabs or they wouldn't be here on CS, yet for some reason we suddenly forget that when we are the wronged party and go on, and on, and on, and ON about it.

Not just scammers, either. Most of the male bloggers on CS, even the creeps, have women they keep as a get-out-of-jail-free card, suddenly remembering her when things are getting too hot. Sorry, darlin', but I did tell you I was serious about someone, remember? Some of the women, ditto.

So, you got taken. Maybe literally. Grow up, write it off to experience, live with the consequences. In your heart of hearts, be grateful you aren't stuck with the charmer.

There, that should have offended nearly everybody but you know what? It's true. Have a lovely evening. rolling on the floor laughing
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I just write them off as a bad debt and move on in real life and on this site.

No sense crying over spilt milk so to speak.
Cal I could probably list a couple myself.laugh
Crikey, am most grateful that I have never felt the need to write about anything personal on here....good or bad! I'm just not that brave. cheers
-need a voluntary..?confused cheers
Yessigh exchanging mails and starting to kind of really like the man then a casual mentioning of his live in girlfriend.doh
CC, yes, exactly! handshake
Viking - what are you volunteering for, exactly? rolling on the floor laughing
blushing huhummm... I think I stumbeled into the ladies room...sorry! I`ll retire back home...hole
Although perhaps airing one's soiled linens in public isn't such a bad thing. Sometimes we need a reminder and warning. It's always sad to see someone get hurt.
Ekself, some are even more blatant, hint at the live-in / significant other on the blogs and never mention her at home in the correspondence because, gee, didn't you know that from my blogs? wow

I haven't been caught in a menage a trois yet, and I would be seriously peeved with myself if I was. scold But you do need to research those blogs when you start on a flirtation. All men should be REQUIRED to blog. rolling on the floor laughing
True story ladies, the blogs as in real life....Men look at it as some kind of egocentric sport. The women as in real life see it all as perhaps a new beginning and an end to their grief stricken past.

I did not make the rules, human nature did. Remember who is from Mars and who is from Venus.
Molly, the CS soap opera runs and runs and runs. Ain't it great? yay
There is however...always 2 sides to every story...wink
Well Verti my spaceship leaves in few hours and I plan to be on it.transport tinfoil hat rolling on the floor laughing
Viking, you can come back, Veri is here to hold your hand. Well, you know what I mean. grin
Lucy, hope springs eternal, we princesses eagerly build our castles on shifting sands, but the point is, we shouldn't have assumed rock foundations. professor

Oh pooh I sound pompous. THAT should hold the charmers at bay. laugh
If I can bring out his Viking blood then we could be brothers in arms and slay the feminist dragon, that seeks to devour all men who pass by.
That's why I prefer to be crazily honest on my blogsrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I do enjoy light flirting on blogs but nothing behind ityay Flirting and fun banter feel good...but is all...forgotten the moment I logged offdancing

OK, I did have some intriguing experience here, I was naive thenblushing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I was lost but now I'm found!yay
Yes, there are two sides to every story, and wouldn't it be nice to hear that other side? Fair's fair! I enjoy the blogs most of the time but definitely do not see them as a new beginning and/or an end to a grief stricken past....mostly because my past was quite pleasant. cheers
Very, that is a little condescending to women (and men).

Women (most) are just as clued in as men. And men aren't all players.
Three sides to every story. His side, her side, and the truth.
yes, but the third side doesn't often speak up.
LM, I have known the other party since I first joined, and have always had good craic with him.

I was aware of his status, because it is written on his profile, d'oh, and therefore could have the banter with him.
Forgot to add "thank you very much" to my earlier post about not being grief stricken....Jaysus!
Veritatis Vancouver, British Columbia Canada
4 minutes ago
If I can bring out his Viking blood then we could be brothers in arms and slay the feminist dragon, that seeks to devour all men who pass by.


I'm not a feminist dragon.There will no slaying at me.snooty
Lucy, that was a very Irish exclamation, to be sure laugh
Molly, I'm not on here often enough to know all the bloggers and, to be honest, I don't check out profiles. I've bantered with him a few times, but not nearly as many times as I have with Sol blushing laugh The whole thing is strange.
To be honest, when I first saw the infatuation / professions of undying love, I would have mentioned something -if it were anybody else.

But some people do not want to hear anything that does not suit them to hear, so what can one do...
LM, I have known him since the Chatroom , and we all got to know each other well in there. Small community.
So I bantered with him there, and will continue to do so.
Oh.....applause .....these Blogs are getting good......all politeness is now 'officially' put to one side.... .lets dive in guys.....banana
I also don't read all the blogs so wasn't aware of any of that. Sometimes we are our own worst enemy!
Your modestly fits you like a glove, Eleg ! laugh
Yup, assuming we are talking of the same two people I hadn't a clue who the object of affection was. I should pay more attention, I suppose.

But despite being a diehard matchmaker I would never in a million years have put those two together laugh
.......popcorn ..........
I know blushing

Ain't had my bluff called yet, phew.
She/he used to say it! And repeat his/her name in case they didn't know it was for them!doh

And he/she used to never acknowledge it in any way!
Ok so, are we having fun now? dunno laugh
I've had more fun watching paint dry on my walls.giggle


AS soon as my homemade chili is done I'm going to have a bowl so I can sing myself a tune. laugh


Ya all have fun now.wave laugh
Nice, tempt us with the thought of homemade chili and then POOF! you leave. laugh

Well, I'm going to have to hire a 'blog reader' to keep me up to date on The Lives on CS. cheers
Lucy, bet you we would tempt Angel to offer a highlights service for a small subscription?
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