Lesson to be learnt on dating/blog/forum sites

C.C That is what I was taught ,everything that happens at home stays at home. I don't trust anyone when it comes to private e-mailing of each other.If I cannot express myself on the blog for everyone to see ,then I don't see the point in doing it behind blogs,because this is Very dangerous and can be blown out of context.But thank the Lord I have never fought over a man and will not lower myself either.Love my dogs too much

The hills of Westmeath remind me of the sound of music

Kalpatary Yes it has become quite a touchy subject of the dating and who knows who or who is wanting who that you never know if you are chatting to someones other half or three quarter,so yes we might as well bring out the knitting needles and swop recipes

Kalpataru here in Indonesia


I know you don't. Infact I found you are one of several ladies I know here on CS who are not emotionally carried away so easily. thumbs up You just left out a letter or two when typing. giggle We all did too


Kal No worries lets just continuing to have fun and enjoying one aothers company.

4.15am in South Africa I have clients @ 7;30

It is so sad that people here use things you share against you or drag you into things you don't want to be part of. I find other peoples life experiences and the ways they handled it interesting. Learning from other peoples mistakes is so much easier than making them yourself.

I agree with you Candy. I'm always very cautious about what I say to whom and I've also learned a few lessons in my 2 years on CS.

The more we tell about our personal life the more ammunition we give others to use it against us.

Like you my original intent when I came on this site was to share info ..knowledge and wisdom and not to fight or having to defend myself against wrong accusations.

every word said is true, but just as you think you have a person sussed they act as if they are not them I think THAT can not be so and so has someone hacked into their account. But help know its them, then I feel sad, that maybe I was too trusting.
I would still hate to live my life not trusting people at face value though, I think I would rather learn hard way.
We can all have bad days and become cross I think.
Anyway in the main I enjoy my daily visit to the blogs and some of the people here allow me a bad day but boy do they give me a lift.
I suppose sometimes when tapping out how one feels the feeling goes

For very positive responses, I for one appreciate the honesty of one's friendship and don't hide behind a curtain of thorns. It is best to be open,honest and no flies on oneself,because then you are understood better in a sense of being straightforward and not beating about the bush.I also don't want to come across a a sweet dear old lady that wants to melt the hearts of men by saying just what they want to hear. One’s life cannot me imagined without people around him or her. We all need people in our everyday life to talk with, share our joys, sorrows, views etc. Besides, the people of our family, we go out and interact with people every day. And some people, we like are called as our friends. Friends make life beautiful and worth living. They add a certain kind of spark of life. You can talk to your friends about each and everything; share your deepest secrets and even your stupid little everyday stories.

We make friends throughout life, in play school, college, office, just everywhere. As we grow through different phases in life, we meet new people and make new friends and do not necessarily give up on old friends. It all depends on how strong the bond of your friendship is. Friends are always there to guide and support you through the ups and downs of your life. They are the people who are always there to lend a helping hand to you.

I personally feel that friends are the biggest strength of a person. There is a special bonding we have with each of our friends. Sometimes, I find no difference between my friends and family. Yes, my friends are my family, not by blood relation, but by heart.

Friends come and go and in life, but what is important is that how long friendship lasts. Sometimes, it may be a few months, a few years or sometimes forever. Everybody wants friends to be in their life forever. Let us find out the “best qualities” the person you call your “best friend” should have!We need our friends like we need our glass of water