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Just an observation and not that it matters at all to me, however, from posts made over the past month or so it is evident that a shed load of members on CS live in fantasy land.I am not pointing fingers at anyone in particular so dont get on your high horse thinking I am talking about specific people... I'm not, I am just generalizing.
Ok... So here we go.....
1)The tales of woe..
Oh dear, oh dear, I gave him my heart... and he's married... Geeez!
2)Eternal love..
It's true, it's true, she told me she loved me and that our 30 year age gap was just a number... Hellooooo!
3)It's not just sex..
He told me, he did, we have a meaningful relationship... get a grip!
4)Plan B
I booked it, yay! Flying to another country to go see her/him, we've never talked or seen each other and its only been a week but I know in my heart, she/he's the one... Yeah right!
5)I'm in love
I love you, I love you too, Oh! he/she soooooo funny, makes me laugh, we talk for hours and hours, its so romantic..... Wakie, wakie!
6)The saint
He/she understands, she/he really does, although we have never met and he/she knows my life is a mess but our love is strong enough to cope, he/she tells me so, he/she is sooooo thoughtful and compassionate..... Errrrm really?
For whatever reason, people seem to get themselves into a situation that has "disaster" written all over it. By the time they realize what they have done, hearts have been broken, faith destroyed and in some cases lives ruined.
For those of you that say "I dont... " or "I wont be..." or "I would never..." I would say, dont be so sure, when someone ticks all the boxes its easy to loose sight of reality regardless of whether you think your feet are firmly grounded.
Comments (64)
can totally understand why and how it could happen but i am 100% sure it could never happen to me..
I implore you all to take sometime out of your CS lives and read about narcissism and what narcissistic people are capable of doing.
You are being played by one who is a professional at their skill.there is only one resolve and that's NO CONTACT...
I really, really, hope you never have to eat those words.
I dont remember the comment, but, apology accepted... thank you
Sure you are, along with loads of others, nothing to be ashamed of.
But nomatter, i won't cause i'v alittle appett
Sorry Sola, can't help it!
You make a sweeping statement and dont back it up.....
Strong words Sands.....back them up with a name........
Didn't we cross that particular highway before?
I don't need to re read anything in regards to what being narcissistic is.
I am sure we are all guilty to a certain degree...of all of the above...lol...but quick to learn how not to be gullible...some are in that process now...live and learn...
You also know to where you can put that virtual book don't you?
you have your divorce so she is out of your life too now all you need do is get her out of your head/mind also otherwise you will drive yourself daft..
"No one can hurt you unless you accept that!!! Is a matter of choice, your own choice !"
I wrote a blog a year ago about "Disempowerment" - we often hear people talking about others "taking their power" but, it is not them taking OUR power, we give it freely to others.
And recently, when I ask about chat rooms, Reck invited me to blogs area, told me is interesting, funny and there are a lot of nice people with a lot of humor, very friendly, wise, cute, etc.
But to be honest....in the latest time when I'm reading some blogs....i have a feeling like....I'm in kindergarden with few angry kids