Controversial blog

Just an observation and not that it matters at all to me, however, from posts made over the past month or so it is evident that a shed load of members on CS live in fantasy land.

I am not pointing fingers at anyone in particular so dont get on your high horse thinking I am talking about specific people... I'm not, I am just generalizing.

Ok... So here we go.....
1)The tales of woe..
Oh dear, oh dear, I gave him my heart... and he's married... Geeez!

2)Eternal love..
It's true, it's true, she told me she loved me and that our 30 year age gap was just a number... Hellooooo!

3)It's not just sex..
He told me, he did, we have a meaningful relationship... get a grip!

4)Plan B
I booked it, yay! Flying to another country to go see her/him, we've never talked or seen each other and its only been a week but I know in my heart, she/he's the one... Yeah right!

5)I'm in love
I love you, I love you too, Oh! he/she soooooo funny, makes me laugh, we talk for hours and hours, its so romantic..... Wakie, wakie!

6)The saint
He/she understands, she/he really does, although we have never met and he/she knows my life is a mess but our love is strong enough to cope, he/she tells me so, he/she is sooooo thoughtful and compassionate..... Errrrm really?

For whatever reason, people seem to get themselves into a situation that has "disaster" written all over it. By the time they realize what they have done, hearts have been broken, faith destroyed and in some cases lives ruined.

For those of you that say "I dont... " or "I wont be..." or "I would never..." I would say, dont be so sure, when someone ticks all the boxes its easy to loose sight of reality regardless of whether you think your feet are firmly grounded.