How online dating is killing commitment:

Many women are finding online dating is only suitable for a fling.Unlimited choice means daters become too picky in search for 'The One'. Others admit that the sheer choice available online has made them too picky when it comes to finding a partner. With an unlimited number of other people on offer via the internet, there’s little incentive to work it out if things get tough. And with the cloak of anonymity the net provides, it’s never been easier to be unfaithful. With online dating being big business, it’s easy to see why the websites, many of which charge joining fees or monthly subscriptions, have a vested interest in not wanting people to settle down.‘When you’re searching for perfection you’ll always be disappointed. You risk relationships becoming shallow and unfulfilling, leaving you feeling empty and hollow.‘When you’ve invested time and emotion into someone, this kind of experience is very upsetting.Men have different motivations to women when dating online. Not surprising when you learn there are seven women for every man on dating websites.
‘Unfortunately, the majority of the men I’ve come across are just after flings.’ ‘Some are upfront, but many are not honest. There are men who say they’re looking for a serious relationship, but when you chat online it becomes clear they don’t or they’ve already got a partner. They’ll write anything women want to hear on their profile.’‘You get into the habit of logging on and seeing who’s viewed you or made contact.‘It’s exciting when you get an email in the morning that says you’ve had 20 views. It’s an ego boost. Unfortunately, you then look at who’s shown interest and your heart sinks. But it still encourages you to think that if you keep going, there’s got to be someone better next time.’‘The websites ask for your preferences on height, weight, hair colour and even eye colour. In the real world, a person is a package and you might not notice their eye colour, but online you cross off people for the most base physical reasons. You become judgmental.’Only time will tell if she’s finally met The One — or if the search for love will continue. J.M.O.