It is really difficult to describe myself but I will try. I am a little bit shy at the beginning but after a while I warm up and I get very friendly. I am a person who is not complicated who loves jokes and always in a good mood. I am also kind, open
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Comments (22)
We too judge a book by its cover.
Try different pictures. And definitely smile. Review your profile information. Women want a confident but not arrogant man. Sincere and that share their interests. Be honest about your interests..
I guess you have asked every man?
Maybe it's just you?
Try someone else
i have had messages from people that after answering a few messages they think i am theirs and not to talk to no one else even lastnight i had that
so we must just say the search is over and give a few days he moves on to another and then she is left to dry up the floor?
men gotta get use to it that we ladies have feelings too and are free to choose
and not because u asy hi we must stop talking to other persons if it was so u arent the first one so u wouldnt have a chance anyway
Actually it is a phrase that was used a lot during colonial times used in reference to those who "fear the Lord" and the implication was usually in reference to a "wise religious person of good conscience and action" in accordance with the Proverb that says "the beginning of wisdom is the fear of the lord."
In the OT the high priest's assistants would tremble with fear during the yearly entry into the holy of hollies in the center most area of the tabernacle because if the priest was not ready he could be killed by the presence of god near the arc of the covenant.
That is why the priest had a rope attached to one of his ankles so his assistants could pull his corpse out in case of such manifestations.
You've got to understand, that in olden times whenever god's presence was manifested it was a very frightening affair.
THE GOD I KNOW I LOVE AND IF I FEARED HIM I WOULD NOT ENTER HIS HOUSE OF WORSHIP
Women usually like to hear that you have read their profile and there's something special in it that attracted you in the first place...something you can resonate with ?
Anyway..I do and the first contact is the most important for me to want to respond.
I need something which can make me say wowww! ..I like that man!
Speaking for myself, and I've been here something over a year, I may have liked something in the initial approach but his spelling and grammar fell off dramatically with every message. TOTAL switch-off for me. Or he gets inordinately keen and wants to skype or get my phone number and the interest just isn't there. I've learned, and presumably most females here have learned, that there is no point saying 'ok no longer interested in this conversation but I wish you well' because that brings more messages, and they can be abusive or unpleasant. Just not replying makes it clear there is no more interest. If the guy then persists, I block.
I have no idea how many approaches guys get, although my guy on CS says it isn't a lot. Women, even women of my age and with not very pretty photographs, get 2 to 3 new messages a day on average. There must be a rush on for Christmas or New Year at the moment because I had 5 today, even though I have quite stringent blocks in place!
Most of them say they love my profile. They don't seem to have read it very carefully, since it says I am in a relationship and not looking
You say there are other reasons,so if there are and you know then tell us woman why.Surely it cant have anything to do with the anatomy,unless there is something you are not telling us J.M.O.