Love turns to hate

Just read this online:


The quality to which you were initially helplessly attracted to a person often becomes the primary reason that you can no longer stand them.( Hotspur)

My question is: Is it true? Does love really turn to hate?
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After the huge flames of passion have died it sometimes turns to indifference. JMOwine
Hey Ish - im my opinion, both the word love & hate are very strong words, and I wouldn't use them unless, I really meant it.
People may have high regard of anothers, and when things fall flat, I would say, some are disappointed or even angry, but to say you hate that person --- in my book, no
I've always heard there is a thin line between love and hate.
I don't see how real love can turn to hate confused
Lukeon I've experienced that, but sometimes flames of passion isn't love
Wolfie, I agree with you. But I think I have never really loved someone and it worries me that love could change to hate.
Totally agree, its the same as Zman sez, how can real love turn to 'hate'? Unless one does not know the 'meaning' of love.
Yes definitely! When your partner dumps you for someone else...
Dev, I totally understand your Ex.
Niayana that would be disappointing, actually horrible. Like Wolfie says hate is a strong word. Isn't it easier to just remember the good times and be thankful you got rid of a, person like that.
Hate is a very strong word, I have known of loving more, but not so sure if you can hate more,,not sure if that came out right but I believe you know what I meant. cheers
Yes love can turn to hate because someone did something to mess something up.

You can't love someone regardless when they continue to disappoint you over and over again.

You probably need to find out why did the love you had for someone turned to hate.
Hola guapa! Hate is a very strong word and I have never hated people.scold

For me, Love may have turned to "Dislike" or even "Despise" at times, but never to hate, even if I had many reasons to hate that person, because I always forgive, accept and move on.wave
Love is a cycle: When you love, you get hurt. When you get hurt, you hate. When you hate, you try to forget. When you try to forget, you start missing. And when you start missing... you'll eventually fall in Love again
LOVE

L = Lake Of Sorrows.
O = Ocean Of Tears.
V = Valley Of Death.
E = End Of Life.
I think some people feel emotions strongly, maybe too strongly.

Strong emotions come in both positive and negative.

If somebody feels positive emotions too strongly, this can turn to feeling negative emotion just as strongly.
I have to agree with that Molly.
Pee, if thats your definition of love, what is Hate?
H A T E
H = Hopes End .
A = Arrange Yourself Again.
T = Tears Of His or Her Memories.
E = Eyes Always Find Him In Everyone.
Bcoz i think in love when we hate someone he is in both mind and heart.
Hate is a negative emotion one must carry with them like luggage. I prefer indifference...hate takes to much effort without reward.
If you hate, that can mean you want them dead. Surely there
is middle ground.cool
Peds..middle ground - just injured instead of dead?laugh
Quite a scale I knowlaugh That means if I like you, I won't
try to kill you.
Always choose to heal, not to hurt. To forgive, not to despise. To persevere, not to quit. To smile, not to frown and to love, not to hate.
Dos love turn to hate you are asking. Perhaps if you are stuck whit rage and can't move on. I don't know the situation you are talking about.
I had a problem with a girl ans some airline tickets. I have moved on ;)

For me I know when a relationship is over, of course I am sad. But I always focus on the future and never the past. I move one - I focus on myself and not the bad situation I am walking away from banana
Love and hate are two very strong emotions and I don't believe that there are many people who truly hate. I believe, that if you love someone, you will always love them. But a lot of people confuse passion with love. Love is not something that just disappears, it is everlasting. As for hate, I can honestly say, that there is nothing or nobody that I hate, other than the hatred that causes such suffering in the world.peace
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