What is up with mind games with online dating?

How do you define the sincere people from those who want someone to occupy their free time?

I have noticed that the people you begin to trust with personal about yourself tend to use it as a tool to hurt you. I had such an experience when I tried to give someone new space in order to take care of his affairs. He took it as a personal afront and repeatedly brought it up to me. Once he said something that irritated me so in return he used a comment that my ex husband used to hang over my head.

If a person cannot accept that you meant them no harm, why go on unless he was waiting to make his attack for touche'. Yes it hurts when it is so personal and told in strict confidence then after shredding your character discards you like you were a waste of his time. If they say that they want to relocate to be near you, be very wary indeed. You may have to support them even if they find job when they are unskilled.

Who can you trust anymore when a singles site is like s smorgasborg for the low lifes?