"IN THE WRONG WORLD"

There Are Two Sides To Every Disagreement...As Of Now...Youve Only Heard The One Side...Before You Cast Judgement On My Guilt Or Innocence..Maybe you Should Read This

I Sent That Message In Private..Didnt I?..I Couldve Written It There On a Blog for The World To See..But I Didnt ..Did I?
No I Didnt...I Chose To Keep it Private...But It Wasnt Me That Made It Public..Was It?

I Chose To Tell A Friend That I Didnt Want Others On Here To Think I Was One Of Those Who Talk Dirty To Her(And Everybody Here Knows About Who They Are...)Certainly Not Me

I Chose To Tell Her That I Didnt Want Flowers..Hugs..Or Kisses..For the Reason That I Didnt Want Others To Think I Was A Part of That Crowd That Talks Like That To Her
I Wasnt made That Way Im Proud To Say..And Will always treat Women With Respect(When it Comes To s*xual Talk)
And What Prompted me To Send That Was When Someone Said That They Would Like To Undress Her And Do Stuff To Her..and The reply That Came back Was... In So Many Words..."Maybe Ill Take You Up On That One Day"(Now Maybe Thats Playing Along..And really not meant..But It Was Said And Was There For all To See..And As I Am Not A Mind Reader..How Am I Supposed To Know It Was Real or Not?

I Used The Word Trash..Because Thats What Kind Of Words Were being used...No Where Did I say That "She Was Trash"(Again..Another Instance Where Words Are Being twisted)
I Consider Her To be A Good Person(And Still Do)
I Was Just letting her Know That I Wasnt Going To be Considered By others That Im a Part Of The Crowd That Talks That Way To her
(Even Though I Dont Talk That Way To her)

Maybe My Words Were In Poor Choice And In The Wrong order
That I Apologize For
But I Wont Apologize For being A Respectable Man
You all Know me here..You all Know I Dont talk About Sex
And Its Your business If you Want To.... But She "WAS" A Friend And I Was letting Her Know That I Disaproved
I Didnt call Her Any Names(You Read The message)
And I Didnt need A reply(Whats So Bad About "No Reply?")
Whats So Bad About telling A Friend That You Disapprove of What Theyre Doing?...Thought I read Somewhere That Sometimes friends Have To be Told What "They Dont Want To hear"
And Youve read That i Was a friend To her
(As far As Im Concerned..This shouldve Remained Private)
Sometimes We Read What We think were reading..and not The Actual Words
Maybe Shes Hurt By What I Said To her
But I Think In Time(Privately To herself)Shell Come To Understand)

So There You Have It People
If Im To Be Condemned For Standing Up For The Priciples Of being Respectable..Then So be It
The comments Are left Open...Condemn me If Thats Your Choice
Again..and Remember...I Didnt Make This Public..Did I?
That message Was From One friend To Another
Up Until That message Was sent..We Were friends
So lets Not Come On Now And say we Werent
And Im Not calling her any Names
(Such as I Was Called)

If Talking To Women That Way ..And Treating Them In That Manner..Is Respectable
Then Im In The Wrong World......................
detective detective detective detective detective

Have To Go Back to work driving a truck In about 4 Hours..After That
I Wont be around Too Much To argue With My Desenters

Donbt Judge me because You Dont like me and you are defending her Because You Think Ive hurt her
Judge me by The Facts

And Im Not bringing it To The attention of The mods That She Has called me names
I Understand That Shes Upset....Im Not Revengeful....as Some Are
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Comments (16)

Dear Nam was just peeking to see what was going on and saw your heartfelt blog.hug
I really do not know what is going on or what was said, dunno
but felt I had to sign in and just say I have always found you to be respectable to cs girls and was horrified that something has happened to get you so upset, in that respect.
I try not to get involved or take sides I judge people as How they treat me.
Arguments come and go on cs I only stick my noes in when someone gets under mine, life is too short to hold grudges so then I just go on as usual, friends to everyone.hug
I know one thing nam whatever has got you so upset you do not deserve it and long term people on cs know this.
Take deep breaths nam drive without this upset in your heart PLEASE and think of the folk that know you wellteddybear
miss redex.....thumbs up tip hat handshake
Hey, no worries, at least we find out where we sit in
the caste system here. Did not realize throwing around emoticons
makes one trash. It could have effect on ones perceived image.
Will steer clear.
Ohhh the drama! laugh laugh
wave Nam My Darling Man . You are far too nice a person to get yourself enmeshed in the claws of jaws that swim in the murky waterrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Save yourself for the right one ,we dont want your contaminated pleaselips yay kiss kiss kiss kiss
wave Teena Baby Hope you are well,and not lost in the twilight zone after your christmas and new year,I still need my favourite blogsterpeace yay yay yay lips bouquet teddybear teddybear teddybear
my lovely beautiful soul and my most beloved friend...cheers .....little tired of the celebrations....rolling on the floor laughing rest assured fit and fine.....for...boxing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing teddybear love youhug (@ candy)
Interesting, especially the comments. I've been guilty myself of having a go at others and not realizing that perhaps they aren't quite as hard-boiled as they seemed. Ironically, twice I have had private messages as a result from others who thought THEY were the object of my misplaced humour! because yes, what I have said has been that general. Quite interesting what goes on here wow

I don't like specific attacks and was sorry to read both the deleted blog and this one. We are a bunch of old gossips in a tight little community and my NYR on CS is live and let live. If I step over the line, feel free to let me know the line has been crossed. My guy will probably have beaten you to it, he usually does. sigh

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If I Had remained Silent
Everyone Would Think Im guilty

A Message was sent in Private
It Shouldve remained Private
Instead It Was Shown To all On A blog That has Since been taken Down
If My message was Bad
If The message Was Good
What Ta hell Was it doing Out there And What was The purpose of making it Public?(YOu Can Answer That yourselves)
Emoticons Have nothing to do With This
If you read What I Wrote....Then You know What it has to do with
I Wish she never made This public
But She did
I wish no harm To her..Nor Were There Intentions for That
Im Not A person Who seeks revenge(It Doesnt Change What Already has happened
As Ive Said
I Didnt make This Public....She did

The Words I Have Written For This Blog
All The comments That Have been Made On This Blog
All The Comments That Are yet to be Made On This Blog
and A sure blog To Come After The 24 Hours is up
Would Not exist..If Not For The Actions Of Making it Public
Not By me......By Her

I Have a job To Do..So I Wont be here to Defend Myself
Theres nothing to defend anyway
End result?....
The Email Shouldve Stayed Private....But It Wasnt

Gotta Go.................................
detective
And for those Who Cant Understand What has been Written here
It Because
You Just Dont Want To.......................detective
-staying away from sertant people might be a good idèa in the future...dunno -works for me.cool wine
wave Hi darling Viking you are better off that way,because I am even too scared of my shadow,but one thing is for sure I have REAL TRUE friends in the real world and not once EVER had any of my friends back stabbed me .Hope you are awesometeddybear bouquet lips lips
Viking wave HAPPY NEW YEAR you can always find something in the mire that is good.
As to staying away from certain people you never know on here when some quiet unasumming person will pick you up wrong and get you upsetmoping its like Russion rouletterolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I truly have no idea what is going on in here, I mean with you my dear Nam, but I do feel you have been troubled to come up to the extent of explaining what should have been and haven't been.

Do I understand that private should have not been declared public?

In which case it hurts you? I am sorry for you my friend. I am surprised that she didn't private mail you back for the misunderstanding but such are our conduct sometimes, we become careless and before we know it, we hurt others and end up too embarrassed to admit it so.

I know you to be one very respectful to all Nam, but always have the courage to fight for what is right. Defender of those that are always picked on and bullied. I hope she will sort it all out and make up with you.

Take care and drive carefully, will you?hug hug
Just my opinion from the Cincy kid so to speak.lol

Private mails regardless of their content should be kept as such, private and not aired in public.

It states so in the site rules but obviously most people don't feel the need to abide by them anyway.They may as well not exist.giggle



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