Men - How to handle Valentine's Day

Valentines day is tomorrow...

Which means there will be a lot of men in the doghouse after they screw it up...

But that won't happen for the men reading this...

Because I'm gonna' show you the BIG mistake men make on a day like Valentine's day.

Ready?

First, there's a fundamental difference in the way men and women think about things like Valentine's day or their birthdays...

If your wife woke up on the morning of your birthday, and said "today we're going to do whatever you want. We'll go anywhere you want and do whatever you want. You just say it, and we'll do it", most guys would love that...

But say that same thing to your wife, and she'll hate the idea.

Why?

Because she doesn't want to make decisions.

There's no fun, surprise or romance in that.

Making decisions is a very masculine thing to do.

What she really wants is for you to handle everything, so that she can relax and surrender and be her full feminine self.

For example...

Let's say on the morning of your wife's birthday, you tell your wife "You have 30 minutes to pack your bags. We're going away for the weekend. I can't tell you any details, just be ready in 30 minutes"

THAT is the kind of birthday celebration that women go crazy about. Your wife would be glowing if you did something like that...

Now here's the point I want you to take away for Valentine's day tomorrow...

You don't have to make some grand gesture and whisk your wife away for a few days...

But adding an element of mystery to the day, and having everything planned out already is the kind of thing that women LOVE.

She wants to know that you're in control.

She wants to know that everything is being handled, and that she can just be herself and go along for the ride.

There will be millions of men tomorrow making the deadly mistake of asking their wife "what do you want to do?"

My advice?

Make sure you're not one of those guys!

God Bless!