To Blogger Friends Now You can say I Told You So!
Hi again! I wrote a blog earlier asking if one (myself) should take a chance on pursuing a relationship with someone that I thought may be a scammer.Well after 3 mo. of writing 2 or 3 times a day he did it! Wanted money for plane ticket to come here. He didn't ask nicely either! I told him NO! He's gone. Now thanks to me losing all my senses and doing much praying and soul searching. All I can do is cry and feel so stupid for believing and dreaming!
Just wanted to THANK each of you that gave me feedback. You were Sooooooooooo RIGHT! I don't even want to trust right now. I even took my profile down a notch. What do I do now? I love my friends here and PC and I love to write but now I feel too confused. Any suggestions? I promise I'll listen this time.
Comments (15)
Don't beat yourself up over it....
Think of it as a lesson learned ...
And don't give up....
All we can say & I think we'd all agree on this, they get easier to spot the longer you're here
Disappointments and realising that people are not who they pretend to be or just not people you want to surround yourself with is part of dating, let it be here or in RL.
Take your time to get over it, meeting someone compatible can be a long and bumpy journey. Give it time but don't give up.
Time to do as the song says, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start again. Next time you'll be more wary but that's healthy, I think.
I have a friend who was asked out on a date by a very good looking chap, she had just met.... They met at a very up market eating establishment and he instated that she ordered anything on the menu....Both having sea food platters and a very good wine...
After desert and a perfect date he had to go to his car to get his wallet.....
It cost her a weeks wages....
It happens to the best of us...
Instead