To Blogger Friends Now You can say I Told You So!

Hi again! I wrote a blog earlier asking if one (myself) should take a chance on pursuing a relationship with someone that I thought may be a scammer.

Well after 3 mo. of writing 2 or 3 times a day he did it! Wanted money for plane ticket to come here. He didn't ask nicely either! I told him NO! He's gone. Now thanks to me losing all my senses and doing much praying and soul searching. All I can do is cry and feel so stupid for believing and dreaming! doh

Just wanted to THANK each of you that gave me feedback. You were Sooooooooooo RIGHT! doh I don't even want to trust right now. I even took my profile down a notch. What do I do now? I love my friends here and PC and I love to write but now I feel too confused. confused Any suggestions? I promise I'll listen this time. teddybear
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Hello Pink sad flower

Don't beat yourself up over it....
Think of it as a lesson learned ...
And don't give up....
bouquet bouquet
GJim, Thank you for your comforting words.
We'd never say such a thing as I told you so liar doh

All we can say & I think we'd all agree on this, they get easier to spot the longer you're here professor wine
Leony, You are right. That's how it seems lately. Take care.
2Bback, Wise words from a beautiful young lady. I do appreciate your advice, Thanks. Blessings, Pink. angel bouquet
Zmountainman, Thank you! You made me understand (the system so to speak) better, Take care.
Pink, dont give up.
teddybear
1, Yes, Friends! Thanks for helping.
Cat, Yes I thought it was too good to be true. Thanks for your words of wisdom. Have a Great Weekend! hug
I'm sorry to hear about that pink. hug

Disappointments and realising that people are not who they pretend to be or just not people you want to surround yourself with is part of dating, let it be here or in RL. conversing

Take your time to get over it, meeting someone compatible can be a long and bumpy journey. Give it time but don't give up. bouquet
Don't beat yourself up, Pinks, there's nothing wrong with trust. Sadly online dating isn't exactly conducive to it but as long as lessons are learnt, not all is lost.

Time to do as the song says, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start again. Next time you'll be more wary but that's healthy, I think.
Pink

I have a friend who was asked out on a date by a very good looking chap, she had just met.... They met at a very up market eating establishment and he instated that she ordered anything on the menu....Both having sea food platters and a very good wine...
After desert and a perfect date he had to go to his car to get his wallet.....

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

It cost her a weeks wages....

It happens to the best of us...
instateddoh
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ah hug Pink you truly smelt a rat in the end. hug hug
Told you so. dunno
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