Values ?
We were all born innocent, without any faults or values.Our caregivers then teaches us as we grow up what we should and should not do. We meet people along the way who influences us to become the person we are when leaving school/university/college finally, and have to now stand on our own feet, with hopefully a full education behind us.
Along the way we have built up a value system, to start living by, and as we grow older the values change according to what we learn from life.
Some people never learn from mistakes and tend to repeat them time and again, so their value systems actually go backward as one value falls the others r next, and some could not care less in that position, as they have reached the down and out stage, and just need a helping, caring hand to get back up to speed.
Thus:- Values r picked up from being born till u expire.
How many values have u retained after leaving school, and then after the first divorce, and then the next (R u loosing values or adding to them) Hurt r then causing lots of harm to u emotionally and ur value system. After each harm in ur life u must use this time to first heal before going onto the next goal, but what invariably happen is that people marry again during the rebound stage as they cannot handle being alone. Will they ever grow up then, to their full extent, or r they bound to go backwards all the time for the rest of their lives, till when some caring person gives them advice, which invariably they will discard, and get angry about.
Values r so important in ur life. Learn from them. Build them up further and become the person u r meant to be !
Comments (43)
how many people care about others
It is not good to be so realistic. It must be give or take.
I always work on first impressions. If I at least want to give the person a chance I will do so, and the others must just find someone else interested in them.
Now where do the excuses and chances end after that.
When I'm "gatvol" with the person. It can be minutes or years.
How do u feel ?
than decide involved or not
but sorry it's my opinion not advice
So..... This was my 5 cents of opinion.
it's happened we can't sleep comfortable
we do our label bests but when we do not
complete our work we feel in easy
for this problem try again and again
I am sure we will be success
Maybe it was just a nightmare that I chose to forget immediately after waking me up.
Who knows ?
but something special we try but never forget
like if we loose best friend
Where I am my good manners seem to be too much, I say please and thankyou and sorry far too much, the locals think I am strange.
Value your friends nd relatives.
You will sleep for hours.
No tension.
But it's worrisome while it lasts, as I work on computers and have to have a 100% concentration level when working.
Clean your sub conscious
Forgive all of them who
Occupied your Subconscious.
Don't stress on Cumputor
Take the work easy.
Don't burden it.
And how do u find Spain. Same time as here. Don't u miss the blissful weather of SA. Mind u it has changed drastically towards USA weather.
By Profession I am Lawyer.
Also have Inherited Property.
My farmers work In my Lands.
THANKS GOD.
Were u giving me suggestions / advice / orders (previously) ?
That's what I think for myself.
I narrated to you.
It's not an Order.
Yes advise.
I am simple man.
Not Clever like you Snook.
Why to butter you.
Don't misunderstand.
It's fact what I said.
The very basic of these never change.
However as you say we learn lessons in life and more values are added but basics the same.
People with high values in life, try very hard not to harm anyone or anything. They have high principles, and will try their best to always do the right thing for everyone and everything.
I know u as such a person, even though we have never met physically, which I personally do not find that important at all, even though I believe in sensing and vibes and body language, which can be picked up in written language as well, I personally find.
However I refuse to live my life mistristing everyong before I trust them if you get me.
So in the main I remain me
Me Ordinary.
You are Special.
Now HAPPY.
Keep away this (False)
Word from you.
Thanks for false Thanks.
It is very important not to listen to other people's preconceived ideas re a person. Make up ur own mind. Then if u have made a mistake, it is ur mistake, and u take the blame for it, and cannot blame others then.
I would still rather be me though.
(phew)
Hey, you sure are popular with guys from Turkey, India , and Pakistan.
fantasies.