FEAR, FEAR, FEAR!
I have written poetry and Blogs over many years now. I had to leave my friends behind and felt like I would not live let alone ever write again. I was diagnosed with cancer and over the period of two years had five surgeries. I am much Blessed to be alive, cancer free and back with everyone and everything I have so missed. I have been so happy until more bad news.In May I will be going in for another surgery. Not cancer this time. Thank God. But serious. I've been praying and anything I can to rid me of this fear I have. I find myself fearful of anything and everything anymore. I feel the root is the surgery. But I can't sleep or get through a day living with constant fears. I wake and sleep in fear.
PLEASE, if any of you can offer suggestions on how you deal with fear it would be most helpful. I have tried all I know. THANK YOU!
Comments (22)
As for your fears, what exactly are you afraid of???
not waking up after they put you out? or them finding your condition to be more serious than you/they thought?
Surround yourself with a support group that your hospital may have.
Also if you are a woman of faith ask your church to help you overcome this fear that is in you.There should be support groups because my church has them.
Open up to family members, they are important in you life.
If you need to chat in a private setting email me anytime.
You are going to be fine, you are getting treatment for your ilness and that is good since many people have something and don't even know it.
It is good to expose yourself and get support even from us.
I will be praying for you.
i'm not afraid of dieing but i wouldn't like to die just yet, and i'm sure neither would you so i can understand your fears.
you believe in God, so its understandable why you pray
and you said you're angry with him and thats VERY understandable too..but try putting your TRUST in him too..if you do/can it won't banish your fears (nothing will) but it will give you some sort of inner calm to help you through this, your fearfull time....
acceptance in other words.
I wish you well my dear
Our docters, and hospitals do work miracles, and I m sure theres one there out there for you, And you have some people here pulling for you,
Fear not. If you can beat cancer you can beat everything. Fighting cancer makes you strong inside. When the time comes you will find the strength to cope with it.
I pray all goes well ,
Huge hug from Spain
I agree with some of the others posters, are there any groups you could join to get support, otherwise can you get professional support?
And Know I Am Fortunate
Compared To Your Situation
And From This Moment On
I will Be There In Spirit And Shall Protect You
When You Go Through Your Ordeal
For You Will Endure Many More Years Of Life Yet.................
And Know I Am Fortunate
Compared To Your Situation
And From This Moment On
I will Be There In Spirit And Shall Protect You
When You Go Through Your Ordeal
For You Will Endure Many More Years Of Life Yet.................
Wishing you well keep us up to date you have loads of friends here and we all send loving vibes.
As Cat says, if you managed to survive cancer, it has given you some inner strength to carry on fighting.
Looking at it from a spiritual perspective... after all what you have been through, having been "spared" life, something much greater is in store for you.
You will carry on writing your beautiful poetry and much more...All the best to you
Regarding "fear", sorry I have no remedy but meditation and some other techniques. Would you like me to send you some healing energy?
Calmheart directed you to Psalm 91. Great bible passage! That Psalm is a promise from God! I prayed, claimed and meditated on it when I had open heart surgery 17 yrs ago. God brought me through as He promised!
Have a blessed day! If you want to chat thru private mail, feel free!
Jim
I am glade that you are Recovered and doing good ,You are blessed God is with you all the times , here is a Guy who had Cancer and had few surgeries ,now he is Totally recovered and spending a healthy and happy life , I hope all will be good with you in the future.
Do not be afraid as cancer doesnt anymore ,you are lucky just keep praying to God i sure he listens our prays .Forget all of pain and worries and come back to the Life ,You are young and you have to go a long long way
Pink
If your picture is recent you
don't look like a Patient.
GOD GIVE YOU HEALTH
LONG LIFE HAPPINESS
CONVERT YOUR FEAR INTO SATISFACTION.
AMEEN.