Reasons you reject someone

Do you reject on looks?

Do you reject someone because of the way someone types or sounds like?

Do you reject someone if you feel they are either too dumb or too intelligent?

Do you reject someone if their manners and compliments make you think they are just after something else?

Do you reject someone because they seem to bombard you with messages?

Do you reject a person if they say the like you, and at that stage you don’t?

DO you reject on grounds of race or religious beliefs?

DO you reject someone too far away?

What are your thoughts on this? should be interesting.
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I don't reject anyone.


However, I make choices about those whom I wish to entertain wine
Hi Mapmaker,

I think, rejection is always a terrible experience - for both sides. snowed in uh oh moping
Fat ankles, picking things up with the feet, snorting when she laughs, and inflecting upwards at the end of each sentence... all reasonable grounds for ending it.
Picking things up with feet rolling on the floor laughing
Interesting thoughts so far, Pat most Ozzy women have the upper reflection..
@Pat, how true.. rolling on the floor laughing
How do Mapswave
excluding religious beliefs, i would have to say yes to them all.

Now you know why i'm still single sad

Oh" the voice is another one for me.
Nah Maps, its maybe 3% that inflect upwards. Usually they're hairdressers that have witnessed a traffic accident.
The same can happen to him, when snorting only.. blues laugh
Picking things up with the feet, is evidence that the link between monkey and human hasnt been properly broken in evolutionary terms.
I 'reject' on all those grounds....just call me 'superficial'...roll eyes
So why then is it so hard to take? blues laugh
Good Morning! First of all I don´t like this word "reject" as if it were defective goods!laugh

I would say that I wouldn´t be attracted to any of the above as we wouldn´t be compatible.conversing
For me, relationships are like taking a journey, which has been a metaphor for life as long as I can remember. If the person is not heading in the same direction as I am I have two choices if I wish to pursue the relationship: reject them by trying to change them; or changing the course of my life to accommodate them and, thus, reject myself.

I would rather accept someone who is headed in the same general direction as I in the five areas of life: physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual and social. If I feel the need to put a paper bag over someone’s head before I can enjoy them, I would spare myself and the other person the humiliation. I do not want a relationship filled with subtle or evident disrespect, which will end in tears for both.

First, if I can be honest, I look at photos here that suggest our body types won’t look like a casting call for a Laurel and Hardy pair. I know what I am partial too and what will keep me reasonably happy at home. Then I read profiles seeking the kind of self-knowledge that fuels decision. If the image pairs with the written thought, I will seek clarity, knowing at least a friendship is possible.

That’s my short list, Mapmaker. I wish more women approached relationships the same way.
Reject/rejection reminds me of whenever I go fishing.It's like throwing something back cause it wasn't the right size.

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Finding out......afew weeks in......he is missing most of his teeth....thats a bummer....uh oh
Itchyrose good luck
If you hear my Voice
Then you Will always
Want to hear my Voice. rolling on the floor laughing
peace hug
More good comments:-

Everything I mentioned plus Picking up things with their feet..new one!

2B We are all beautiful, just some not so much.

CC Isnt fishing what we are doing?, throwing away the wrong fish?

aR..Good comment, did you co write War & Peace? (joke)

Cal..Rejects on all mentioned and dentally challenged.
I would not put myslef in a situation tobe rejected..

Pretend inferioity
and encourage his arrogance..
Sun Tzu.

If we do this then we might get a better look at the one who is doing the rejecting..
I'm only attracted to those who are above 60 love smitten love smitten
Mapmaker I co-wrote the War part as an early memoir. Now I am looking to live the Peace (and quiet) part. All the drama was in the first half.
I reject because I don't like the smell, the taste, or where they've been professor Oh no that's fish I'm thinking of doh grin
I think we all have a unique, meaningful set of qualities we look for in a partner while wanting to be loved for a unique set of our own qualities.

What you listed are petty issues me thinks.dunno
I have never act to any list or to common opinions....I'm just my self in every different situation and I feel when and when not...I don't start anything so easily,but when I start,I have put a lot of things in my mind already together and I don't cut or reject for any small things here and there,that I don't like.
All dating on Internet is very bad,because here People cut connections for the smallest thing and many are against their own good,deep in their boxes with their restrictions...and Candy Land mentality,that is so spread,make the hole thing worse.
Anyway,I don't see much potential for my self on Internet,(what could make in fact some sort of broad rejection)because my Personality affect strongly every single Person I meet in real life and no matter even I meet them the first time.

Rolf
Reject? No, but I do avoid those who don't have enough in common with me. Nevertheless, I'd be polite and I'll talk to anybody if required to do so.
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CC Isnt fishing what we are doing?, throwing away the wrong fish?




It's not that they are the wrong fish it's the rules of fishing.If I don't throw them back I could get into big trouble.laugh
All of that play a role in how acceptable a person is but won't reject someone if he does not tick one or 2 of the boxes...except maybe race and religion. Mostly because I am not prepared to convert or change to accommodate some weird cultural believes and rituals.
I'm sure you're right Timo roll eyes wink
Don't look at it as rejection..
But as lady luck giving you a second chance to make a better choice...'-)
Itchyrose
rose Right rose
good luck Then good luck
good luck Hear rose rose
rose rose My good luck
good luck Voice good luck
Wise words there, Blue....head banger
Reject, hmm. I am interested in most people, but I do lose interest when they say something that proves their minds are set in stone, filled with mud or slime or grime, or they are completely selfish and out for number one at whatever cost to others.

Until then, I enjoy talking to all ages, all types, all persuasions, no matter what race, religion or creed.

Although I do find politics boring help
map

We all have preferences...so I see it as not rejection...it is possible to be friends...as long as there are common interests... wine
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You're right.thumbs up
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What is an upper reflexion? confused
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