Why??? Why???
I need your advice. I went on my first online date. It had been 13yrs. since I've dated so I let my guard down and went for it. The guy showed up with flowers, hugged me and we or at least I lol the entire date. We even finished one another's sentences. I had the best time and felt he did too.Was it me or something I did? I'm blaming myself!
Then the next morning he begun to text me extremely vulgar messages! I ignored them and he told me what I could do to myself! I'm in shock. How can someone go from one extremely to another?? Overnight!
I dressed nicely, used good manners and don't believe I gave him any signals.
Now, tell me would you write a nasty email or text? Tell him what I really think? 
If you can help I'd appreciate it. Thanks! Hugz, Pink. 
Comments (13)
Obviously we can't know the cause, as we weren't there, only you and he were there.
Something that happened, or didn't happen the night before, must have triggered the reaction of the following morning.
Try to think back and look at it from his perspective just to find out.
You said ' we or at least I lol the entire date'.
Does that mean that he might not have been enjoying it so much?
Don't get me wrong,don't do it for his loser.
Just cut off contact with him immediately. There is no excuse for being rude.
Do it just for yourself to know why it went wrong, so you will know for a future date.
summation of bipolar fits well here. With so many disturbed people in the real world maybe as a pre date qualifier one should ask....do you suffer from any mental illness???
It isn't, by the way, only guys who do this. I'm on CS mainly to talk and listen to other people's experiences, and I can tell you there are a few guys who have been enjoying an increasingly lively on-line flirt and suddenly receive photos of parts of their new lady friend. Some say woohoo and jump up to the next level instantly, but some ARE shocked and even repelled.
Staying in tune and moving at the same speed is actually the trickiest part of this whole business. Get that right, and you have a go!
Good for you for going on the date. Some people never pluck up the courage, you rock!
You take care,
He could also just be online to pick up women.......
Sadly most men in SA just want to score.........