Husband hunting,

Heres something , that has me wondering,confused I know afew women, who are husband hunting,and they want a husband NOW,doh
What has me wondering is, what happen to the days where someone got to know their future spouse,confused before getting married.
Have things progressed that fast,that I m missing something. Just curious. Could some of you intelligent Ladies out there, tell me what I m missing here, confused
And Yes, this is my first blog, rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing ,
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We are behind the time I suspect as I have also noticed that people move fast now a days. Unfortunately they also don't stay long with their new found husband or wife. dunno
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I'm not looking for a husband.grin
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Actually only fairly recently that women got to know their husbands before marriage.

The trick is to pin the man down, hog tie him, THEN get to know him rolling on the floor laughing
Cat,rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up You got me there Bud.
Just lately a few female friends are husband hunting, and I ve noticed they ve thrown all caution to the wind,
doh And these girls are around the 50 yr old mark, I m hoping for their sake, loneliness, doesn t turn into stupidity.
1to1 it is also the same with the men I've recieved a few marriage proposals laugh maybe they want to get into the states or maybe their so lonely that they would marry the first person who comes along . It's great seeing you blog here hug teddybear
1to1 it is also the same with the men I've recieved a few marriage proposals laugh maybe they want to get into the states or maybe their so lonely that they would marry the first person who comes along . It's great seeing you blog here hug teddybear
Hi 12121,
You must try to understand their concern. They are well beyond their use before date.hole

I'm going fishing until the storm subsides.
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Wife capture. Ancient methods still excite. One quick touch with the club. Hand full of hair on the head. Short drag off to the cave. If there's any lip when she comes to, repeat step one.
Hello Minerva,hug Lately ,I know women who want husbands now, take a glance at PLENTY OF FISH, lots of women seeking to get married, confused Maybe I m to old fashioned , getting to know someone, before marriage. I ve been told I m crazy, not stupidrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
I don't look at other dating sites but I can imagine.
Women looking for husbands because they're desperate or need a visa to get into a country or whatever. ..

Anyway..that's not my style either. Like you I'm rather old fashioned and wouldn't want to rush into such thing.
There are lots of reasons for people to get married and love isn't always one of them. dunno

Good to see you blogging 1to, wave hope all is well with you. bouquet
Back Again, lot of the women of POF, local area, seem to be somewhat desparate, which is unfortunate, not knowing their circumstances, wish them the best.
Hello Kn, wave I ve been meaning to post a blog for a while now, me with ms, have my good days, bad days, and couldn t put the proper thought into it. But overall, I m not doing to bad,yay
Hello 1to1to1 applause applause applause

Congratulations on your blog! hug bouquet yay yay yay

I think the norm is to get to know a person first before committing ourselves seriously towards each other?

Or my view and sentiment are way outdated? Hmmmm.....hmmm
The question is why do men OR women state in their profiles that they are seeking a marriage ....dunno
Get your point KN.....but I wouldn't feel relaxed dating somebody who is focused on marriage , to be honest , as the chances of being mislead during the " getting to know each other" are potentially high... or is there a manual for that sort of arrangement ???

Easy answer to that: to inform the other of the severity (or weight) of the search. It speaks to compatibility and the shared-ness of the journey.



I noticed the same thing too, back in high school – some 35 years ago. Granted none whom I met were in the mindset of looking for a suitable marriage candidate (I was!), but the plain reality I have observed is that people put more due diligence into buying a car than they do in creating a life. They just hop in and drive, setting themselves up for payments they may or may not be able to afford or do not reflect the actual value of the vehicle. That has always made me indignant, usually while learning this lesson within a relationship where I get left on the curb – sometimes by my choice and sometimes not.
I think myself it takes time to get to know someone and I would never hurry into something. Not seeing myself to get married tbh. The only reason for me to get married would be kids and that's not on the agenda. Would like to share my life with someone eventually but if that's living together at some stage or in YEARS time to get married it's not something I would worry about these days.

But on a dating website - maybe shows that someone is serious about the commitment and staying together thing? You probably got that no everyone is ehem, completely honest on their profile?
I did KN and I learned my lessons sigh
I did too Seri. hug

Hope you'll meet someone that makes you happy. bouquet
1212hug

A good blog... about time you did one...
I have looking for marriage in my profile..
I'm not looking to marry anyone for the sake of being married...but as an end result...
I guess I'm being honest...

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Thanks for the replies,yay These days, somethings are moving so fast, and me being abit old fashioned, a person has give current events some thought.And getting second opinions off the blogs doesn't hurt,yay
Thanks,
Thank you KN wave

We all deserve to be happy with ourselves and somebody to enjoy the happiness with !
1to

Congrats on your first blog...not looking to get married...lol...laugh

Test driving required...wine
If I see someone is looking to get married on their profile, I hurriedly leave!uh oh

I prefer people to look for partners first, and potentially that might lead to marriage down the road, but most probably won't.

Looking to get married on a profile just seems to be wanting to reach the destination without enjoying the journey.
Congratulations Oney
On Your First Blog........................detective
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