Husband hunting,
Heres something , that has me wondering, I know afew women, who are husband hunting,and they want a husband NOW,What has me wondering is, what happen to the days where someone got to know their future spouse, before getting married.
Have things progressed that fast,that I m missing something. Just curious. Could some of you intelligent Ladies out there, tell me what I m missing here,
And Yes, this is my first blog, ,
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The trick is to pin the man down, hog tie him, THEN get to know him
Just lately a few female friends are husband hunting, and I ve noticed they ve thrown all caution to the wind,
And these girls are around the 50 yr old mark, I m hoping for their sake, loneliness, doesn t turn into stupidity.
You must try to understand their concern. They are well beyond their use before date.
I'm going fishing until the storm subsides.
Women looking for husbands because they're desperate or need a visa to get into a country or whatever. ..
Anyway..that's not my style either. Like you I'm rather old fashioned and wouldn't want to rush into such thing.
Good to see you blogging 1to, hope all is well with you.
Hello Kn, I ve been meaning to post a blog for a while now, me with ms, have my good days, bad days, and couldn t put the proper thought into it. But overall, I m not doing to bad,
Congratulations on your blog!
I think the norm is to get to know a person first before committing ourselves seriously towards each other?
Or my view and sentiment are way outdated? Hmmmm.....
The question is why do men OR women state in their profiles that they are seeking a marriage ....
Easy answer to that: to inform the other of the severity (or weight) of the search. It speaks to compatibility and the shared-ness of the journey.
Just lately a few female friends are husband hunting, and I ve noticed they ve thrown all caution to the wind,
I noticed the same thing too, back in high school – some 35 years ago. Granted none whom I met were in the mindset of looking for a suitable marriage candidate (I was!), but the plain reality I have observed is that people put more due diligence into buying a car than they do in creating a life. They just hop in and drive, setting themselves up for payments they may or may not be able to afford or do not reflect the actual value of the vehicle. That has always made me indignant, usually while learning this lesson within a relationship where I get left on the curb – sometimes by my choice and sometimes not.
But on a dating website - maybe shows that someone is serious about the commitment and staying together thing? You probably got that no everyone is ehem, completely honest on their profile?
Hope you'll meet someone that makes you happy.
A good blog... about time you did one...
I have looking for marriage in my profile..
I'm not looking to marry anyone for the sake of being married...but as an end result...
I guess I'm being honest...
Thanks,
We all deserve to be happy with ourselves and somebody to enjoy the happiness with !
Congrats on your first blog...not looking to get married...lol...
Test driving required...
I prefer people to look for partners first, and potentially that might lead to marriage down the road, but most probably won't.
Looking to get married on a profile just seems to be wanting to reach the destination without enjoying the journey.
On Your First Blog........................