It their Anniversary and the M word is coming up
To avoid a date with a widower who had two young daughters, I set him up with a customer of mine that had also sadly lost her husband and had two daughters....Now I am told by both parties that they are in love..... and that marriage has even been spoken about......
Geeee I am good...... or am I?
Their first date was one week ago...... yip last Saturday
Both of them are well educated (intelligent) people.....
I am all for LUST at first sight.... hell I’ve have met people that make my hand sweat.... my hart race faster, have lost the ability to speak coherently and hormones do back flips ...... Even then I waited a lot .....LOT..... longer than a week.....
I would like to wish them all the best..... but 1 week
Is is normal.....Have I been out of the loop to long??
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My theory
educated + intelligent = stupid
I'm neither educated ( having studies up to high school only ) nor intelligent, so where does that leave me?!?!?
2B... never heard educated + intelligent = stupid
I should not have said that.... sorry
Heyyyy!
Hello....
I think myself that taking your time to get to know someone is the sensible thing to do. It is also possible that you get a vibe if there is someone that could be good for you. Some people have had the experience that people change and/or things simply don't work out, but if both are widowed, they mightn't have had that experience and are just very euphoric.
As long as they are only talking about getting married after a week and not actually do it, there is hope.
Good on you to have a feeling who to set up and make happy!
Theres the old saying look before you leap,should definitely fit your friends situation. And then again occasionally stranger and stupider things have happened, There is no laws against stupidity
When the 'm' word pops up, my gamophobia kicks in, luckily my running shoes are always nearby...
Well done, matchmaker. May they have a very long, very happy life together.
Miracles do happen so they say
I don,t beleive in miracles until they happen of course.
Everything's gonna work out just fine!
They are at the same state in life...raising kids.
Both (presumably) have made a successful marriage, and (presumably) have both a desire for another happy union...and life skills to make it happen.
Given that, the subject of marriage, at least conceptually, would naturally come up.
I mean...how could it NOT?
KN nailed it.
As long as they're TALKING about it, and not dashing down the aisle, things seem to be progressing as would be expected.
Will they ultimately 'live happily ever after'?
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will be pointed at you! :) Good deeds never stay unpunished :)
You are right.