It their Anniversary and the M word is coming up

To avoid a date with a widower who had two young daughters, I set him up with a customer of mine that had also sadly lost her husband and had two daughters....

Now I am told by both parties that they are in love..... and that marriage has even been spoken about......

Geeee I am good...... or am I?moping

Their first date was one week ago...... yip last Saturday wow

Both of them are well educated (intelligent) people.....

I am all for LUST at first sight.... hell I’ve have met people that make my hand sweat.... my hart race faster, have lost the ability to speak coherently and hormones do back flips ...... Even then I waited a lot .....LOT..... longer than a week.....

I would like to wish them all the best..... but 1 week
frustrated frustrated frustrated

Is is normal.....Have I been out of the loop to long??
help confused help confused help
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Love at the first sign... nothing not possible.
Dreamhug

My theory
educated + intelligent = stupid

teddybear
Ok 2Bback,

I'm neither educated ( having studies up to high school only blues ) nor intelligent, so where does that leave me?!?!? dunno confused uh oh
Hi dcwave thank you for welcoming me...

2B... never heard educated + intelligent = stupid confused
Flash

I should not have said that.... sorry moping moping
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2back
applause Heyyyy!
Angelwave

Hello....

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Hiya 2B, just be happy for them and wish them best of luck. conversing

I think myself that taking your time to get to know someone is the sensible thing to do. It is also possible that you get a vibe if there is someone that could be good for you. dunno Some people have had the experience that people change and/or things simply don't work out, but if both are widowed, they mightn't have had that experience and are just very euphoric. happy place

As long as they are only talking about getting married after a week and not actually do it, there is hope. laugh

Good on you to have a feeling who to set up and make happy! bouquet
Hello 2Bback,wave I have on occasion known people, who after a very short while, were set to get married,confused And after the shine of the fling and good times wears off, things get back to normal, reality sets in.
Theres the old saying look before you leap,should definitely fit your friends situation. And then again occasionally stranger and stupider things have happened,rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing There is no laws against stupidityrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Hiya 2B

When the 'm' word pops up, my gamophobia kicks in, luckily my running shoes are always nearby...

Well done, matchmaker. May they have a very long, very happy life together.

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wow 2B did you sense something in the air thengrin for these two.
Miracles do happen so they saydunno
I don,t beleive in miracles idea until they happen of course.peace
I paired up a couple...theyve been together ever since..sit together...walk..sleep..never part..

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If the chap's last name is Brady, I don't see a problem.
Everything's gonna work out just fine! heart wings smitten
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They are at the same state in life...raising kids.
Both (presumably) have made a successful marriage, and (presumably) have both a desire for another happy union...and life skills to make it happen.
Given that, the subject of marriage, at least conceptually, would naturally come up. conversing
I mean...how could it NOT? confused

KN nailed it.
As long as they're TALKING about it, and not dashing down the aisle, things seem to be progressing as would be expected.

Will they ultimately 'live happily ever after'?

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YouTube - Que Sera Sera

cowboy
Be prepared, if something goes wrong in the relationship, the fingers
will be pointed at you! :) Good deeds never stay unpunished :)
Adren.thumbs up
You are right.
teddybear bouquet
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