I Cannot Make Up My Mind.

I’m in love with two women and I don’t know how to proceed. I really love my girlfriend, but I’m also in love with her son’s mother.love

Should I come clean and tell them about it, or should I let them fight it out when one of them hears it from somebody else?dunno

Some of the guys here may envy me but I can tell you that at my age it is blue hell to keep two women happy. Everything I do, I have to do twice.doh

It is not my nature to cheat but I cannot help it. They are both so cute; I cannot make up my mind about which of the two I really want. I’m so scared that I may choose the wrong one.sigh

And the mere thought that I may lose both in the end, keeps me awake at night. What shall I do?confused
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I hope your Monday is not blue.wave
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Your gf has a son ?

Sound you talk abt only one person : your gf and her son's mother.

It's like a widower has 1 son. Each of them has 1 son. How many person are they ?
Hi Minerva,
That was a long time ago. It was another girlfriend.grin
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Hi Flashlight,
One Person?

Really?

So I don't have to choose. What a lucky break. I hope you're right.cheering
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Hi kitten. I wasn't in the blog long ago and today having opened the blog wow! what I see. My friend, you have forgotten my council? At the man has to be three beloveds. One for a body, the second for business, and the third for a family and children.
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Hi Toebek,
They have the same traits and preferences. I should really treat them the same. I don't want them competing against each other for my attention. It may lead to jealousy.doh
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hi Ummka my dear friend.reunion
It is so good to see you again.applause

So you say I need another one?grin
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Hi DC
Not in South Africa. Here the aspiration is for six wives. Ask our President. He sets the trend.laugh
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Yes my friend, you need one more. And if they don't find understanding, let packs a suitcase and goes further. There will be who understands.
Hi Ummka,
Will you understand?blushing
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Six ?!?!? wow

You'd be needing those 'Tongkat Ali'. Try Google that wink
I always speak, and is convinced. Man not property of the woman. Yes he has an obligation to the wife, children, and beloveds, but he not their property. He property only mothers as thing, and as her fruit. And when we women will understand it, there will always be an understanding and mutual respect.
Hi DC
Yep at the last count he had six wives. That is after he got divorced frm one or two. And each of them has an official home paid for by the taxpayers.frustrated
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Hi Ummka
Wow, you have me speechless. laugh
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I just googled 'Tongkat Ali'.wow

It would seem that six wives are within reach after all.grin
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I know, women will think and why the woman can't have three husbands. Yes it is possible, but only the woman won't be for men, absolutely safe, she will become as easily available woman.
Hi Ummka
I don't think that Western women will agree with you. You will have them up in arms in no time.laugh
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Bob
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Don't worry, she will if you can't. grin

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Eating pop corn again?

Hi KN
that is whay I'm scared of. And then she'll take her son's mother with her.doh
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Bob
Hail! Yeah._______popcorn
well cat think your losing it .you must be drinking or smoking .this woman you will lose if you don't decide which par of her you wants ..is a bit like the local priest marring his own daughter and still be left in the church
Johnjim
Got dog!_____rolling on the floor laughing
Sounds like In a few years you might be meeting and falling in love with a new woman every day, eh Cat?........confused
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Hi john
A priest marrying his own daughter!laugh

Morne Du Plessis said that sharing a trophy (The Currie Cup) is like kissing your sister. rolling on the floor laughing
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MICLEE
Hehee!_____laugh
You better get your skates on Cat. scold
Hi Miclee
Oh, but I do! I love women. Some of them are my best friends.grin
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Kitten, I think and the European women understand, what is better, to be the only wife not of the worthy man? or to be the second or third wife of the worthy man. When I speak the man three wives can have, it concerns not all men. We know that not which men aren't able even to provide themselves.
applause Heyyy!! Ummka.
Hi KN
Now that's something I never mastered. I preferred skateboards and surfboards. doh

Water skiing as well. Could never stay up for long.doh
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Hi Ummka
Now that explains labola. Here in Africa you pay the family of your bride in heads of cattle. Only rich people can have wives.laugh
My respect Angel. I am glad you to see in the blog of our friend.
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Hi Ummka,
Thank you. It was great seeing you again.applause

Drop in again some tome. You should not stay away so long every time. We miss you on CS.sigh
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Thanks! Ummka.

It's Early Morning Time Here In My State.
So! Now It's Time For Me To Go To Bed._happy place
Never too late to learn Cat. laugh wave
Kitten, I think there are men from whom it is necessary to take that he could look, and there are worthy men to whom it is ready to give all the wealth to be nearby. Here I look for such worthy.rolling on the floor laughing
hi KN
Definitely too late now. In the mornings when I get out of bed my joints creak like an old shìthouse door.doh
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I would be glad to be frequent in blogs, but I don't have enough time. To in total you kind, I hope you will have good a communication in the blog.handshake hug
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Let day will be kind and cheerful.
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