lllllEnigmalllll

lllllEnigmalllll

Meriden, Connecticut, USA

Apr 2016

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We are all human

No one better than the other....just different.

Not one man or woman without their own flaws.

What makes up our own individuality is how we respond to these imperfections within ourselves and towards others. We choose to be who we are even though we can't control the thoughts and views of others. Look outside the box a bit and have understanding of someone else's reasoning even though you may disagree. Its just a matter of respect towards another human being. Everyone has heart, you, yourself just have to use your own wit about you to find it...and only then will you have peace within yourself to accept an imperfect world and still be smiling.

Be good to eachother...no point in arguing an endless battle that can be won over by no one

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tenner●n/a, Majjistral Malta

Apr 3, 2016●166 Comments

Smart! I love arguing and debating. I don't perceive it as a war though. With the right folk, i see it as a learning experience.

Lukeon●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Apr 3, 2016●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Good to see you back Red. Still doing the Karaoke thing? Keep well.

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Thank you Luke, good to be back...and as long as I am still breathing, I will always have a song to sing

imbackagain●Farwaniyah, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait

Apr 3, 2016●40 Blogs●984 Comments

Enigma

I like your effort to ease out the heat

Have to agree with you, one of the blessed beauty to humans are of being so unique and different from each other.

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Im... You are a new face to me, welcome

....sometimes a little reminder of simple humanity may be necessary....to those who choose to take heed anyway

...and being so unique as individuals makes life so colorful ..just think how dull life would be if everyone shared the same views, had the same thoughts, looked the same, had the same heart...but its to be embraced, not disputed

goldengloss●Malahide North County Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Apr 3, 2016●1 Blogs●1,936 Comments

Hello Enigma, I totally agree with your Blog. I think discussion and not agreeing makes for an interesting Blog, discussion, but no need for hostility or getting personal, put downs etc., I guess that is when the insecurities, anger management, egocentricity comes into play.

imbackagain●Farwaniyah, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait

Apr 3, 2016●40 Blogs●984 Comments

Enigma , so much is to be known! yes it is the first time i saw you too on the CS!

ali110●Hamburg, Germany

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●605 Comments

excellent post Engimal , You Stole the words from my mouth

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Im... I was here a few years back and had gotten to know several good people here....I have only returned ...when i was here last, i was known as Red for obvious reasons

nice to meet you

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Ali, I have a knack of speaking what most only keep in their minds....i dont have the fear of speaking my mind, no one should...providing its said respectfully. Everyone has opinions, im sure...but wording is everything

Snookums3●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Apr 3, 2016●35 Blogs●1,520 Comments

Enigma. Good Blog. Ya, some say some people r more human than others. That is intended discrimination and u find it everywhere.

Seri2016●unknown, Cork Ireland

Apr 3, 2016●6 Blogs●769 Comments

Nig, you're absolutely right I never thought different ...
But it this case I stand my ground

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Snook....I wouldn't exactly say some are more human than others. Some just handle things differently according to their own environment or upbringing. We all experience happiness, sadness, hurt, anger, etc...and some are more expressive about these emotions and wear their heart on their sleeve. Some are understanding and look for ways to make peace with the other while others react impulsively and hop on the defense. If youre secure and content with who you are then how you view the actions of others is very different

pat8lanips●babinda, Queensland Australia

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●2,239 Comments

So the logical comeback would have been something like- I'll take a real man over a hand any day...

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Seri...you are who you are, keep it that way

Seri2016●unknown, Cork Ireland

Apr 3, 2016●6 Blogs●769 Comments

Pat, we need a serious talk,..
Can you teach me master .....

Elegsabiff●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Apr 3, 2016●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Four legs good two legs better

Snookums3●Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa

Apr 3, 2016●35 Blogs●1,520 Comments

Enigma. I feel vibes from people and Read behind verbal, reading and body language. Not often someone can get passed me trying to lie. I'm just lucky that I can spot them. A sixth sense they call it.

The fact that people say one person is more human than another it to give their own ego a boost, to feel unjustly superior. I don't get on with people like that, at all.

Elegsabiff●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Apr 3, 2016●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

NICE blog. Despite the Animal Farm comment, which I couldn't resist, I am 100% behind you. Oh dear, I really should ask you to delete the comment, shouldn't I?

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Legs....my apologies for being a little confused

Elegsabiff●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Apr 3, 2016●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Sorry, me being whimsical. Animal Farm also held all animals are equal, but some are more equal than others.

And if I've confused you more, please ignore me. I'm a bit of an idiot

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Snook...its good to have a sixth sense but always keep an open mind because sometimes those vibes given off arent necessarily false superiority but possibly an insecurity of their own fears. Doesnt make them a bad person just may be their way of holding some bit of humanity in an uncomfortable situation

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Lmao legs, I've heard of the book but have never read it...I think I was absent that week of required reading in school

ali110●Hamburg, Germany

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●605 Comments

Engimal ,Why did you not born in Pakistan in my neighbor ?

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Lol Ali, I wonder often why I wasn't born in a different country...one day I will travel the world, its on my bucket list

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

No worries, seri... Topic strays frequent my blogs regularly

ali110●Hamburg, Germany

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●605 Comments

of course ,i do miss traveling as well
wasnt intrested before but now i love to see the world

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Maybe the travelling curiosity comes with age

Aaltarboy●Belfast, Maine USA

Apr 3, 2016●167 Blogs●468 Comments

Three legs on a man. How hot is that? Aa.

ali110●Hamburg, Germany

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●605 Comments

how many countries have you visited Engi ?

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Map..strong statement you have made...and you are absolutely correct. No one is perfect. It isn't right to judge others though because your hands will never be completely clean...because perfection in anyone does not exist. Do those who treat others poorly deserve understanding as well? Absolutely. You would help someone in need who has not eaten for days, would you not? Needs are not always materialistic. One who treats people poorly may have a different need. Maybe its all they know because they spent a lifetime being treated the way they treat others, maybe all it takes is someone to understand them rather than assume you're their personal target. If ya dig a little deeper ya might find that theres more to that person than their impulsive behavior given at a particular moment. Show some understanding and ya may change a life...and gain a very good friendship. Ya might be surprised. Revenge only leads to more anger on both sides and fuels a small spark into a bonfire of burnt feelings. If ya cant come to a mutual agreement to disagree and things just cant be resolved civilly then disassociate. Simple as that. There are billions of people in the world, why dwell on an endless feud with one. Walk away with a respectful goodbye and a smile, know your own worth and be the better person.

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

That's odd, Aa... Many men seem to have that in common

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Ali, I've left the country only once in my life as a child to neighboring Canada where much of my family is from. But that is all

ali110●Hamburg, Germany

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●605 Comments

sounds good ,the best of my knowledge canada is just 3 hours drive from...i think Florida

world is so beautiful ,i never been oput of country so i would love to see of course

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

Hah! 3 hours from Florida? Nooo lol I live in Connecticut and I'm closer to Canada at about maybe 7-8 hour drive. It takes about 24 hours for me to drive to Florida from here so tack on another 7-8 hours to that....Florida to Canada is probably about 32 hour drive....providing you don't sleep

Canada is on the Northern Border of the US, Florida is at the very Southern tip

imbackagain●Farwaniyah, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait

Apr 3, 2016●40 Blogs●984 Comments

Enigma

Tell me those OBVIOUS reasons

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

hahahahahaaaa Im....I don't know, maybe because I'm just a fiery redhead?

ali110●Hamburg, Germany

Apr 3, 2016●74 Blogs●605 Comments

Ohh OK sorry ,I didn't know that ,I would love to visit someday if I can , there are so many beautiful cities over there ,what's 12 months weather of bristol?

imbackagain●Farwaniyah, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait

Apr 3, 2016●40 Blogs●984 Comments

Enigma

If that is a question than I am not at the right answering seat!

I can smell passion!

But that will so muh out of context!

lllllEnigmalllllOP●Meriden, Connecticut USA

Apr 3, 2016●23 Blogs●611 Comments

12 months in Connecticut is crazy lol....they always say, "Good old New England weather" very unpredictable

Like today for instance, we had snow squalls this morning, almost 2 weeks into spring and now it's just cold with lots of sunshine, but 50mph winds. Jan-Mar it's cold ....usually lots of snow, ice & rain....temps about 0-40 degrees fahrenheit, sometimes colder and sub zero. Mar-Jun...spring days 40-70 degrees fahrenheit, lots of rain with usually equal amounts of sunshine....Jun-Sep temps 70-100 degrees fahrenheit, sometimes hotter, lots of sun, heat, humidity, little rain, sometimes drought..water usage is often controlled with fines of misuse....sep-nov 40-60 degrees fahrenheit, hurricane season....tropical storms, change of weather, etc...then back to winter temps again, in nov-dec. All this subject to change because of new england's unpredictable weather patterns

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