Red Flags!!!!

Last evening I engaged in conversation with a woman from Europe I've never contacted previously. As a matter of fact, I rarely look at who is online. I just will comment on blogs when I come on CS. But last night a woman's face profile caught my eye. So, I read on and found the woman's profile interesting enough to facilitate an email chat.

I will describe the adventure to my days of being a recreational pilot, it has significance in the realm of take off and landings. Before take off a complete physical of the outer craft must be made. Looking for any stress fractures while checking the prop to the tail of the plane..including gas tank levels since gauges cannot always be trusted. After the outside part is accomplished there was an 18 point checklist in the cabin that needed to be made before taxiing to the runway.

So, I did my physical check on her, one profile picture of her face and that was it......semi
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Hair....check
Eyes....check
Education...check
Location....check
Height....check
Profile....double check (loves to travel)
Age....check
Sign....check

So, ready for take off...

The windsock lied, (it shows wind direction), I went right into a headwind after my first email. She made a comment that I didn't read her profile carefullyvery mad (I read it twice). After explaining my comment she understood where I was coming from. I needed to speed the engine to get it off the ground. Whew!!! made it. Started climbing to 3,500 feet, so far smooth no turbulence. Arrived at altitude, leveled off and started looking for other craft. One spotted above me, so I veered in the opposite direction. All is well, until she says here's my email I'm not here all the time (Red Flag). Her last comment was a kiss goodnight (Red Flag).Then coming in for the landing I hit a little high on the runway and blow a tire. The plane veers to the left out of control hits a ditch rolls over and explodes into a ball of flames......

After our chat I went back to look at her profile and it was most likely hidden (not deleted). (Red Flag) So, I googled her pic and found another CS profile with her pic and a different name, but all the details from age to sign to hair/eyes were all different. (Red Flag) So, I google her email address...nothing found....I then searched FB and once again nothing.

As some are aware here, I made a mistake a while back, so I am extra cautious going forward....We exchanged some 20 or so emails and I enjoyed the chat. Her english was perfect and you could tell she was an intelligent woman......does anyone tell the truth online??? or are we so busy trying to outwit the scammers????

Moral of the story: if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck.....it might not be a duck.......
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Comments (31)

So I'm lost ?
Why to you spend all that time and effort conversing with a duck ???
Hi Blue, after the first email it was going very well. The last two emails made the hair on my neck stand up.....
I have the same problem when I play with the wall sockets...
Hi Biff, good idea, I didn't think of that.....that would be a hoot!!!cheers
Hi CH, very well could be she's not, but two profiles and complete different stories doesn't sound to good. I'm sure there could be a logical reason, but I just don't want to find out...
Hi Z, I finally put my foot forward again and now I'll just go back a couple of steps. Shame, we had a great conversation, we were both in France Jan of 2014, so we had that commonality....I am so leery of every word said, that it's hard to be that carefree person I use to be....
She has a identical twin sister ?
Or bi -polar
I had that in mind too, but makes way too much sense laugh
Hi Seri, I'm sure there's a logical reason, probably more like evil twin sister...laugh
blue, add multiple personalities to the bi-polar...anything is possible in the land of CS......doh
Did I mention that my sister still doesn't know she's on a single website.
Hey Georgie girl, well I always use to say: kill it or cure it....it's a lot easier to kill it early on so, there's something to be thankful for....hmmm!! sending deadly virus's.......cool
Seri, Sorry,I'm not up to speed...do you really have a sister on this site? confused
Yes Sands, and she just replied to your commentrolling on the floor laughing
Ok, on a serious note , since here on the blogs , I find it easier not to doubt my gut feeling.
Seri, I think the attitude of your guilty until your proven innocent is the name of the game. Someone is always hiding something about something somewhere......detective I'm just the opposite too trusting and gullible.......but hey, better to explore the possibilities than never even know they existed...grin
Hi Lou thanks, I think the problem is that I'm on financial message boards all day long talking and chatting with people about stocks, and I'm use to people just being 'real' people. They make a comment you can choose to agree or disagree with their thought process.....it's not a game of hide and seek......I am a lot sharper now then previously...but learned the hard way......Story of my Life.....
yeah one of those Trojan horse galloping on their screen that cant stop with no northan or AvG OR NOTHING THAT IS ON THE MARKET

that wipe their screen and crash their devices i bet all this messing with people would stop
Sands, it's good to remain positive attitude.
Reality kills romance. Not that I'm the romantic sort ..
georgie, remind me never to get on your bad sidelaugh
yes Georgie, it's unfortunate, but like I always say what doesn't kill ya makes you stronger......thumbs up
yup so true


i have learned my own lesson as well

i am not new to the online thing no more
Georgie, in hindsight the real sad part is when she wrote 'kiss good night'........and that's when I knew what I was dealing with...laugh In my former world I wouldn't have thought twice about it and just said...that's a real sweet persondoh
It is sad that we have to check and double check people before we even start a conversation. I just go with my gut feeling and never had a problem. Then again I seldom send private messages on here. Seldom answer any of the mail as well as there are always obvious things in the mails I usually get....like the last one who wants me to be a good wife to his wife.laugh
Hi Em, yes, quite a shame, but last time I went with my gut she took my lungs as welllaugh
Hi gold, Zman is funny, I pay him by the post to insure some laughter on my blogs..... Now, that I think about it her other profile said she was separated and the one I responded to said divorced. Don't know who in their right mind would respond to someone who states they're separated.... thanks for your advice, I am being as careful as possible cheers
Sands, always read the small print as well.. doh wow laugh
Hi Cal........thumbs up
Trust your gut instinct, Sands thumbs up wave
Your fortunate M, but nonetheless an ounze of prevention is worth a pound of cure.....
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