Abby1963

California, USA

Apr 2016

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Broken hearted

What would you do if you really liked a person a lot maybe even loved him . The two of you weren't compatible in the bedroom would you get your feelings hurt if you couldn't turn each other on? Would you end the relationship after trying for a few weeks ?

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Elegsabiff●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

No. As long as you want the same things, you can get there. If he is into stuff you won't consider (or vice versa) that's much more compromise and you'll never be entirely compatible,but if the basics are in place, maybe you're just hoping for too much, too soon. Fireworks are great but building a bonfire is very satisfying.

Really liking someone is rare.

timotie●Peshawar, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa Pakistan

Apr 14, 2016●65 Blogs●1,214 Comments

Abby Sweet

:Its Difficult Time

Be Patient Take Care

Of Yourself

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Gentle him thanks for your comment .we have both decide to break up him more so .:-( I guess it wasn't meant to be

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Timotie thank you for your comment .im trying to ware my big girl pants today but the tears just keep on rolling .

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

I agree with Jim but I would need more details before giving you a proper answer.

As they say..when there is love there is a way...?

timotie●Peshawar, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa Pakistan

Apr 14, 2016●65 Blogs●1,214 Comments

Abby

Let The Tears

Wash All Your Worries

Brings Happiness for You

Ameen

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Daniela I thought the same thing I ask him was it me he didn't know .i then said do you think u might want to see other women he said no .now he won't text me back I'm baffled with this one .thank you for your comment

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Timotie thank you for all of the encouragement you have sent my way. I really do appreciate it thank you

lshtar●Here, Andalusia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●42 Blogs●1,464 Comments

Abby, if you tried then good for you. It's not your fault, I think he needs see his doctor.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

me lily I needed that

thank you . I think it's his testosterone or I just don't turn him on I don't know

timotie●Peshawar, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa Pakistan

Apr 14, 2016●65 Blogs●1,214 Comments

Abby Sweet

All my effort

For You Is To Pray

Have A Successful Future

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Timotie believe me I ver been praying I Praia this broken relationship would be healed today I have to pray about myself I want the pain to go away .i know give it time.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Daniella he says no when I asked he says it works just fine so it has to be me

lan158●dubai, Dubai United Arab Emirates

Apr 14, 2016●116 Blogs●667 Comments

dont fret over it pet..move on..find another

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

Anyway you shouldn't be blaming yourself. He probably feels the same as you do and is afraid to admit it.

He should definitely see a doctor.

But..I still wouldn't give up on him just yet.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Thanks Ian

that helps me out a lot

Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Apr 14, 2016●800 Comments

Abby...it is definately not your fault....you got as far as the bedroom..so obviously he found you attractive....
He couldn't perform.....his problem....NEVER blame yourself....

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

Abby..how can he say it works if it doesn't ???

Of course that's what they all say!
In other words it worked fine until you came along?

Do you know when it's the last time he was with someone?

Do you know if it worked then? Ummmm..

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Daniela I can't figure him out .he just tex me telling me he needs time to think .i asked about what he never text back .thank you for all of your support .i really need you guys

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Calypso I'm so hurt over this my self esteem is at an all time low I can't help but blame myself I know it's not my fault but I can't help blaming myself :thanks for your comment and I will try not to blame myself

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Daniela

that's what he told me but yet he also said he hadn't been with a woman in a long time .he doesn't call or txt me now he does saying he's thinking I ask what's he thinking he won't text back . I wonder if he's playing me or try to boost his ego

Calypso51●Thurgau, Switzerland

Apr 14, 2016●800 Comments

Abby....everyone has insecurities the first few times they sleep with someone...
We all think...."will he find me fat"...."will he find me attractive".....will he this/that and the other...
Men are less body conscience....in fact...they can't wait to throw their clothes off....
We all want to be desirable....but we shouldn't beat ourselves up about it....
Move on.....find someone who deserves you...

Crazyheart38●Amman, Jordan

Apr 14, 2016●191 Blogs●5,807 Comments

Abby,

Give him time and just let him know you;re there for him....if he has a problem, this is something very very difficult for him, probably can't even admit it to himself...just give it some time....

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

I don't agree with Cal.

If you love a man you just don't drop him because he can't get it up!!!!!!

I'm sure he loves you and feels bad about it.

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

CH ..

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

Don't take any notice of him.

CH and I agree entirely with this issue.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Crazy heart I've offered up time . I'm so confuse his last Tex an hour ago said sorry I gave not called just taking a little time to think .you have a nice day I

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

Before taking any pills for ED the man has to find out first if it's physical or psychological?

In which case he might need a medical doctor or a psychologist.

I know many men in this situation and..as long as they recognise they have a problem and do something about it then it can be resolved.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Crazy heart. It's out of my hands if he needs time like he stated then I shall give him his time

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Daniela I text him that I loved him right after he text me saying he's thinking nothing more I can do .thanks for all of your comments they are greatly appreciated

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Lover ranger we get alone so good out of the bedroom things are awesome thanks for your comment

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Sands I can't make him do anything I guess it's his problem up to him to fix it

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Apr 14, 2016●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Abby, you can't make him, but you can gently send him in the right direction his GP could be his first contact......so support his efforts and if there is no effort then you will know what to do. First thing is to identify the problem and then find the remedy.....

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Crazy heart that you for all of your advise it's greatly appreciated and I thank you for taking the time to comment on this mess

daniela777●Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain

Apr 14, 2016●2,126 Comments

Then..I entirely agree with CH as I've been in similar situations...personally and patient related.

If he loves you and wants to keep you then he will seek medical advice.

Lr.to you ..

How would you feel if your gf dumped you because you couldn't get it up?

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Apr 14, 2016●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

Abby, chess game...his move

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Crazy heart I'm not buy any of those toys

your so sweet I thank you once more

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Sands I'm hurt my stomach is in knots how long to I wait for him to think?

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

maybe it would be good for him

your too funny lol

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Apr 14, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Calmheartseek thank you for you comment . I'm so mixed up right now my self esteem is gone in time things will work out I hope

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