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Sorry to hear that you're upset maam.. let me know if I can help in some way.
Do you mean because of your loss or because of how he made you feel?
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Have all you want, just be very selective and keep everything in a public place, until you know you're in control and safe
Seriously, otherwise you'll just continue to suffer needlessly
Have you made up your mind about not wanting to pursue this relationship?
If you are sure that there's no hope for the future and are not prepared to wait then let go and move on...
But first you'll need to be really sure..then forgive as forgiveness is a healer.
Regarding your self esteem issue you'll need to keep reassuring yourself that IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT but. .with some affirmative sentences.
I could help you with some techniques but not here I'm sorry to say.
Phyllis
How can she stop living in the past when it just happened???
As for you LR. No comments.
Abby..don't you have any friends you can talk to and maybe go out with just to get you out or the house?
To go and find another man on the rebound is not going to solve the problem.
It's her own sweet will.
I wanted to give her boost.
Thanks for your reply representing Abby.
Tomorrow is another day.
Don't listen to sad/romantic music or watch soppy movies. Keep your mind active and tire yourself out so that you sleep soundly. No pj day for you tomorrow, Missy
It just takes time
from what you tell me and about his behaviour or looks as if he's just playing with your emotions to see how far you're prepared to go.
In this case I would just drop him and stop all contact with him.
Like you say. .DO take your power back as he's just playing victim and wants you to feel sorry for him.
If you can't get your mind off it, maybe try some reading or something that is easy(not frustrating) but requires some concentration.
Be nice to you, you need it right now.
I hope you feel better soon, these things do pass.
If you don't want to get up, then watch some comedy or horror movies. The Walking Dead is nice, nothing romantic about zombies...
If you can feel this in your guts let it out by maybe crying out loud or whatever you feel inside to get rid of the pain.
If you can do that I can assure you you'll feel much better.
Anyways, get a little bit of tequila, with lemon, and just have one shot. That used to help me a lot, too. I sleep like a baby after that. Then mingle again and hopefully you will find a better one, I am sure you will. Just be patient.
Get on with it, with a fighting spirit
Be a Victor, not a Victim
You'll bounce back, I didn't mean to rush you.
When I felt down in one of my blog, Luke posted this hilarious video that made me laugh so hard...