unconditional love
Would you getiinvolved or marry someone that lose a limb due to accident or illness?And if so what?
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What do you mean by what???
but i would say arms.. not to be ever held by him, nope i couldn't be not having that.
If I
Lose a limb I wouldn't want to be. Left behind
In this lifetime anything is possible
But I understand what you mean and of course with respect
Probably one of the more interesting questions posed on the blogs, no?
If I was truly attracted to a woman, a missing limb wouldn't keep me from becoming involved with her, or marrying her.
Growing up, one of my Mom's friends was missing an arm.
She was married and it seemed normal enough. With that experience, I guess it's just not much of an issue for me.
Yes. It wouldn't bother me. I love the person, not his limb...if he lost one or two, I won't take off, I'll stay and love him more...provided he deserves it before he lost his limbs.
Georgie, Crazy - well said. :floweru
If I were already in the relationship and all loved up, then I would of course continue with it. That is different.
But I wouldn't intentionally go out of my way to start a relationship with somebody who would need additional care or attention.
Interesting point, Molly.
Sould that also include diabetics...whose future care requirements could quite easily be significantly more than those of an amputee?
Diabetes could also be passed along to one's children.
I admit, I would be hesitant to become seriously involved with a diabetic. Especially so if I were younger, and was considering having kids with someone.
Other conditions to consider...
Hemophilia, Daltonism (color-blindness), having had rheumatic fever when (s)he was young.
Speaking of Daltonism...
What color is my phone in my profile pic?
Some folks see it one color, some a quite different color.
your phone is orange
thats fair
Agreed.
A missing/deformed body part is pretty much a non-issue, compared to a good character. IMO.
True also...The future is not ours to know.
My Mom's one armed friend is doing quite well in her nineties, the last I heard.
I lost my Mom quite some years ago to a rheumatic heart, which she got due to an illness when she was 10 years old.
A very good and thought provoking blog, Georgie.
Anyone have a different take on the color of my phone?
divorced him for not dying quick enough...
then he dies.
I'm not sure why, but that really cracks me up!
Well fir me if I find love with only one arm that'swhere my heart stay iIwill not run after the other lost arm
Your mom ffriend follow her heart
What color is yourphone iit's bright orange
About the lady that Marry for material thibgs I personally know her and yes I laugh too and don't know if it's a good thing to feel good it happen that way but I did and still do I don't believe a person deserve that.
And before you glare at me, that's a fairly normal reaction. Disabled beggars get far more money than able-bodied ones, and it is pure social guilt. How can you walk past someone who can't walk? Dig into your pocket and the guilt goes away. Well, you're not only talking about digging into your heart, you're talking about taking on a lifetime of feeling apologetic because you have two arms, two legs, can see, are not in a wheelchair, whatever, and that takes a pretty special person. I'm not.
You do NOT have orange-pink color-blindness, Georgie.
Those of you who see it as pink...
I wasn't even aware there was such a thing until a few curious people asked me why I chose to have a pink phone.