No, please don't make my heart beat fast :blushing
Now I am more confused. Is it American style to say that they like someone so much even just via webcam for the first time and say that the person is the one they are looking for even without knowing anything about her?
I just video called with 1 man a few days ago and now he says he had dreams about me everyday and misses me much. today i just video called with another American for a few minutes within my work break and he said I am the one and he would fly half the globe to see me. omg, please tell if I am wrong but i am not used to this at all. Is that the way all men use to flirt? all my friends say i am so light-hearted so i have to guard my heart carefully. But I don't know how to guard myself against these...
What he said made me blushed. If I am so beautiful and kind and nice as they say why am I still alone? or do they just say so to please me? If I am so sweet, so smart so sexy as they say, why am I still lonely?
Why do most men become so interested in me at the first sight but that won't last long? Am I too boring? i think I am. Am I too complicated? yes, sadly I think I am and very demanding, very crazy too. I have bunches of bad characteristics
But who will accept all those and stay by me and love me for who I am for the rest of my life? seem noone. How can he talk about wife, kids and match so quickly like that? as if he can read everything of me at once. and he says he knows me more than i do. oop. too hard to believe but i don't trust my gut feelings anymore as they are often wrong
Sometimes i want to give up hoping for him to come but i hate it when they bring glimpses of hopes to my fragile heart.
Please save me and make me wise enough to distinguish fake from real 
Comments (13)
I found that a lot of the people that didn't commit simply don't want to or can't - it is up to you to take your time and get to know someone to find out if someone is capable or want to have a relationship or just chasing the next skirt.
No one can help you with that, just something from my own viewpoint - when I was happy and content in my life, I - a) attracted a different kind of guys than when I was unhappy after my break-up, b) was more level-headed and could discern better who is compatible with me.
You are a good bit younger and I found that there were less guys with baggage out when around 30. Can you get out of your home environment that pressures you? Get a job transfer and live on your own and do your own thing?
The questions about job transfer and living on my own, I am not sure about the answers until i must really put myself in the situation or try it out.
Regarding home pressures, i don't care much the environment here, it is only the pressure within myself as a daughter, a future wife and mother. i give up with myself
My opinion again, I don't think putting yourself under pressure and absolutely wanting to meet someone will do you any good. You will consider guys you probably wouldn't consider when keeping a level head. Meeting someone and falling in love should be fun after all. If it's not fun in the start, when do you expect it to be fun? After all the responsibilities might put additional pressure on a relationship?
Hope you'll find love and have FUN.
It can be a cultural thing, where I'm from we talk BEFORE we start something, looking around the girls here, some are afraid to ask questions and hope he'll get attached after a while. I'm with someone from my own cultural background and actually HE asked me all the questions I usually would ask. No more questions after that.
They are not in love with you. They either want something or have mental problems. But it's not love.
Maybe you cam too quickly? Get to know them properly first.
If you don't trust your own gut feeling, let a trusted friend with good instincts read the emails. They will know.
@Molly, i would want someone like that to advise me but i don't have the someone. And i am curious of who i am talking with so i want to see them too. But almost all people who saw me on cam did the same thing i.e. telling me how they feel for me so i guess maybe the first option that they want something might be true.
Stay on the blogs with us and be patient!!