'Charity God!'
What do you think about people who looks bad on people using expensive things? Looks bad on people who travelling to nice places and enjoying nice hotels/resorts/ nice foods? Of course those money came from working hard, not robbed or stolen from someone!For examples, if you posted foods look expensive to them, they would immediately jump to you and said: 'do you know how many people in this world has nothing to eat?? Why you eat such expensive thing??!', if you posted your expensive clothes (by chance which is the fact that you have it in your life, not to show up) they would say: 'I feel shame to wear expensive things because many people out there are poor', for example! If you post pictures you travelled to somewhere look expensive to them, they will say: 'you rather save those money to poor people!!'
To be honest I feel SO TIRED with these kind of things!
Why don't they think I deserved to have good foods because I worked VERY hard? Why don't they think I deserved to have expensive clothes because someone loves me so much that she/he wants to give me as a gift to say thank you for what I had done for them?? Why don't they think I deserved to spend my money for traveling to the places I like just because it's MINE money, I do not rob or steal from someone and I think I have the right to use it as what I want.
Why they ALWAYS want me use my money for something call charity?? Are they 'Charity God'?? I myself DO give donation to people who I do really meet in my life and I don't mind to help them if I think my help for them is good for their life (in long term, not just about giving materials). But I'm NOT gonna working hard day and night just to pay high tax and live like a low-income people to save money for charity! I'm sorry, please FEEL FREE to call me selfish and please FEEL FREE to shame on me if you feel so but I'm definitely NOT someone who going to work like crazy to live poorly and give all my money to poor people. It's NOT me! I'm really sorry for that!
Comments (6)
You take things too serious. Relax, enjoy what you earn and let others talk.
I would just look at them and change the subject. If they continue then say something like, "I don't make suggestions about your money so just drop the subject".
If they are fellow employees then just go to your boss and let him know. In America there a office complaint location called Human Resources where you can get this problem quelled.
If it's your family then stay away from them. That always works for me. I have been accused by them of stealing from them. I have fixed the problem. I don't visit them anymore. That's right!! I cannot figure them out and they will never change so I stay away!!
........enjoy........
It's obviously your money so I wouldn't feel guilty for liking nice things.
And, it is so good if you think your help for them is good for their life (in long term, not just about giving materials), so, why being too confused how to treat the maid, who everyday do helps you your housework?
We all try our best in life to work hard and make as best a lifestyle for ourselves and our families.
We do our best to help poor unfortunate people too and contribute to various charities.As long as you don't flaunt it too much, sure..go and enjoy yourself with your hard-earned money.
( but maybe buy your maid a present now and then)