So here I am

a single man, a hunter of sorts if you will. a searcher in a last chance saloon by the name of CS.
Its a strange kinda place, an I don't seems to think I have a rabbits chance in a wolf-pack of finding true love in here. No more than I do in the real world streets I just walked in from anyhows. But as my daddy used to say; "a change is as good as a break" .

So here I will sit, nod and smile politely at the people as they go about their business and see if I can figure out if I have the lure needed to capture the attention of a passing interest. Virtual lures gotta be easier than real life ones. And I know most of you are probably thinking at this point.
"What in the hell is this fool thinking, you don't need bait to find true love"
y'all think true love is just sometin that falls in you lap while you sit down and wait for it.
Heck no ! every one of gods good creatures on this blessed and precious planet tells a different story, and its one of using all their given talents to attract a mate be it for lust for love.
I dont see how we humans are any different seen as we were born of the earth and share it with our not so clever animal brothers and sisters. Or are we ?
Is love like life Something that happens while you are making other plans. or do us humans lie and deceive to capture the love of ones life.
What attracts the wondrous women of Connecting singles to on-line suitors wine
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If you wear a really small pair of shorty shorts, then lean forward so one ball becomes visible below the hemline of your shorts, the CS chicas go crazy for it.
Generally, my attention is caught from the outset - the first email, the first post, the first comment.

I just know instantly whether I won't have an interest, or if there is a potential chance of an interest.

I keep an eye on the potentials then to see their interactions, how their personality shows and grows, etc.

Obviously, they would have to have an interest in me too for it to go further laugh
Thank you kind sir, tip hat
And may I commend you on your intellectual prowess thumbs up
Miss molly,
Why hell golly. If only your photo were as clear as your words.
Im sure I would straight off fall in love. bouquet
I think the fact you are not in a relationship...is because of shyness...you've lost the ability to flirt in the virtual world....
Sorry i mean real world...
Calypso,
I think you could be right,
Would that just be me or everyone here in CS wine
Are we all in the same barrel ?
Basically yes.....we go about out daily lives, with blinkers on....
Is this were a man being confidant is so attractive.
To flirt in the face of possible rejection and strive to move forward.

Is confidence a well needed lure for love, and can we tell true confidence from false.
A confident man is an attractive man...yes..no doubt about that...
Yes Non, a show of confidence is definitely an attractive quality.

Whether it is true confidence or a conjured one is not that important.

not everybody is naturally confident, but faking it is possible for everybody.

And the more you use the fake one and see that it works, the more your real confidence will grow.

Fake it till you make it.
Or simply find a less confident girl than yourself, she'll be telling all her friends- "He's so confident!"
Calypso
Thank you and a toast to confidance wine
mollybaby
"Fake it till you make it."

Wise words indeed.
How many times a week Do you fake it molly wink laugh
pat,
I like that logic laugh cheers
Confidence? Daily


Anything else? Never grin
rose Brother Non thumbs up
rose I read your Valued Blog rose
rose I refer to your line. rose
rose Every One Of GOD'S Good Creatures rose
rose On this Blessed and Precious rose
rose Plannet tells a different story rose
rose Very Right.*.But Love needs Sacrifices rose
rose Stay Blessed nd Healthy bouquet
touché molly laugh
Confidence builds with age....but i would never do public speaking...or enter a room full of strangers alone...
I agree sands,
It can seem like a game of percentages at times thumbs up
I think I will get a bigger scope laugh beer
timotie,
Namaste my friend. dancing
Re, laugh
I'll take a dozen grin
greedy man but hey ho make hay whilst sun shinespeace peace teddybear
Calypso,
Yes I read a while back that the number one fear in the world is public speaking.

I would find it daunting too. sigh
It must be an age thingy then I have no fear of room ful of people nor speaking but certainly not alone in an unknown room with 1 unknown person.dunno
Molly rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing now there is a thought.rolling on the floor laughing
Red,
Do you frequent the naturalist gatherings.
Non laugh

I'm sure the audience were more relaxed though grin
non never have YET its on my todo listrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Last Chance Saloon that place is packed full of men telling stories
and spittoons.
Go where there's women-try the Cowboy Millionaire's Club;dancehall.

coffee drink this no more y' alls doh cowboy motorcycle
CS gives me an opportunity to make friends, have fun, and even pursue a relationship where all my boxes have been ticked. It's interesting at times and fulfills a need. In the real world I'm just an introverted workaholic. Which is not good for my social life...that's my story Non teddybear
ash,
If you gonna be there I bet it would be worth a millin dollars to get there. Love it wine bouquet
Maybe more women would notice you if you took off your cloak of invisibility, nonsmokerdetective hole
@YUNIKSHA.
Sorry I don't know how I seemed to have skipped over you.
Yes I am similar in life Introverted somewhat just not a workaholic laugh wine

nice to meet you. handshake
Non, not just a Yeats infection, but Oscaritis in our Joyce. blues
Ah molly,
maybe a dose of the G.B's as well laugh wine
Oh boys, you are confusing me in what I want now. moping


I want it all!!cheering
Funny but beautiful, I had had a block on writing poetry, went to Ireland last year and was so enchanted with all I saw and heard wrote a poem about bonny Ireland vowing to come back to her.
Never written another poem moping moping moping YETpeace
I'm a smoker and enjoy smoking, so you lost me long before I looked at pics laugh

True love, ah, the dream. The first hook for me is a good approach. If he can spell, sounds interesting, I'll go look at his profile. If that's got the basics in place I'm interested, and from there on it's just step by step, and every good step is more exciting than the last.

Most of the time I end up with friends. But there's always the chance the liking will flare, the excitement will catch, ooh. yay
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