Running on Automatic

Are relationships as complicated as some people make them out to be?

Surely, once the initial adjustments have been made, the relationship should run smoothly, in synchronization with each other, almost automatic?
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My best relationship I ever had was a Honda Stream , automatic , metallic gold with leather interiorsmitten



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If both parties are calm, relaxed, laidback, and faithful, oh yes.

It's like owning a puppy, there are tricky moments while you settle down together and then a long and contented relationship rolling on the floor laughing
This is a most un-Sola-like blog but hey, good to see you back wave
Now I understand why you´ve disappeared for so long Sola... you were making some "initial adjustments"?

Hope things are now running smoothly for you and everything is in synch. ? dunno
Does that mean that now you will have time to blog again?
Initial adjustments aren't always made, for whatever reason.
Daniela... Been on holiday for the past 6 or so weeks, back at work now so have more time to indulge myself
Biff...
Thanks for the welcome back. Not my type of blog? I thought I always talked about relationships.... No? (innocent smile here)
Seri.... Isnt a Honda sream some kind of an iron?
Molly....

Thats for sure, but,............. Its never my fault!grin
More time to "indulge" Sola?

I am sure you must have indulged in other things during your holidays? giggle
Oh, you always do, but you don't usually sound happy rolling on the floor laughing
Daniela... There are different types of indulgment. dancing
Biff.... Happy?... now let me think... Hmmmm I remember that emotion.
part time relationships are the ideal ones.

Good to see you back Sola wave
Good to see you back, Sola applause

I go back to sleep now yawn yawn sleep sleep
Nice to see you Solamente.
I don't think relationshios are, complicated I think I'm complicated. Hopefully I don't scare this one off.
Gypsy, Page 76 1/2 way down.

Sola,I dont think it's automatic, but there will always be some adjustments and there would have to be compromises all the way through the relationship.
wave I must say I prefer your blogs as rant.laugh
As far as relationships,...... no idea at all, been out of the
loop too long.conversing
Oh, I see, Seri. uh oh

Thanks, Map! I'm looking for one that will curl my toes. What is, in your opinion, the best on the market for that purpose?
Gypsy, I am no expert on these matters, however Im told that the "rabbit" is the most often used.
Hi Ish, I'm too coy to describe these things, just google them!
Map You are turning out like Blue.. Google is my friend.
All I know is that I need to keep extra batteries in the bedside table. After that, I'm clueless. dunno
Ish/Gypsy Ok, Im a man of my word...Gypsy purple is the current best seller.

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Is that a "rabbit"? or a "kangaroo ball jumper"?
Ish, This is the "Rabbit"
My god...they look painful don't they! wow
That is one scary looking device! Think I'll save my batteries for my keyboard. cheers
Enjoy themwine Give it a namethumbs up Place it on the
passenger seat beside you, and talk until it melts.rolling on the floor laughing
This seems to have turned into an animal lovers blog innocent
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Molly, that is hilarious!
Mr Solamente, you are a dreamer. A relationship is a dance, a constant balancing act. Sometimes it's work. Sometimes it just flows. Sometimes it's a battle and other times it's a celebration of peace. In any case, it's a commitment that each will have the other's back no matter what.

Anything less would be boring, don't you think?
Well judging by how quickly people will resort to using heavy machinery, I'd say they're on autopilot. Strategically it makes sense, to give a girl a packet of C-cell batteries on the first date. If she looks disappointed and tells you she needs D-cells for her machine, then I'd pretend to go to the toilet and climb out the window.
IW...

Yup! I like the part time ones. Thanks for the welcome back lips
Gypsy...

Running on auto doesnt mean the relationship is dead. Just means things are working great to the satisfaction of both.
Ish...

Good point... If a person is complicated then the relationship will need some work.

Sly comment about you being involved at the moment?.. Spill the beans.
Map... I accept adjustments need to be made, however, I dont agree that people should compromise themselves.
Ped...

No doubt I shall return to ranting .... at some point!grin
If a relationship is complicated, I don't think it will go anywhere. dunno

I would talk about what each of us want and where we see this going beforehand, and if we both want the same, things should run smoothly. If you want to be with the other one, you automatically want to spend time with each other.
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