He's cute but he works for retail...

Being young and twenty something more often than not you see someone and you asess their attractiveness. Whether it may be their physical attributes, their aura, their occupation. Yes their occupation. For me a man's attractiveness has lots to do with what they spend most of their time on. Do they sleep all day? Drive a car all day? Sell all day? Teach all day, draw all day whatever the case may be their occupation says a lot about them and it also says something about their character.And to me character is really attractive. So next time I see a good looking man and he is spending most of his time at a retail store. I will be like " he is cute but he works for retail" I will walk away and graciously wait for the man I am attracted to who I will smile at as he passes by.
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What's wrong with working in retail? confused
haha Unl, right?
HE'S WORKING. HE HAS A JOB. HELLO?
Right Free? confused I'm not getting this.... laugh
why don't you scout out doctors and make an appointment
math teacher don't do shopping

i find it yet another reason to tell men they are not worthy of thy a**
u have your opinion , free to think but some things are better kept silent.


i wonder if a thief would be suitable since he can earn up to a hundres million in one haul if he hit the right spot .

coz aparently its about the haul.

the gucci boots , rooftop and the bling
We had this in the old days.
Where the wife of a notary would be madam notary.
and the wife of a doctor would be madam doctor.
and wife of a lawyer would be madam lawyer.
Like marriage gave them a degree....

I guess madam retailer is below you.

Can you really teach to children and kinda say: most of you will never get a girl like me...
A silly thought and part of why I no longer bother to date the women in their early 20s because as the above shows, many aren't thinking clearly yet and their mind is still muddled.

It is the job of the life partner to help the male succeed. She is supposed to provide the home support so he is free to focus on improving their life. [About role reversal, before you ask, dream on.] You also no nothing from a glance about who the man is. How do you know he does not own the store? How do you know he is not from a wealthy background and working retail only because his parents wish him to? How do you know from the glance what his dreams and aspirations are?

As you and someone else said, he is good looking, AND he has a job. Instantly he jumps to the head of the line to someone thinking clearly.

Capitalist class? rolling on the floor laughing Are you a Communist? (A totally failed concept.) Did you learn the word Capatalism from a speech? LIFE IS capitalism. You either take and eat the food, or you become food. There is no middle ground.

We wonder what kind of a job (if any) you yourself have that you feel lofty enough to prejudge someone based on their own job? With the attitude you display here, if you came to me for a job, but I had read this blog, no, I would have no interest in hiring such a narrow minded person. I am sure I am not alone in that.

Are you sure you aren't really Hillary Clinton writing under a pseudonym?

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Now it's rather amusing how passionate you are my fellow commentators. No i didn't learn capitalism in a speech nor am I Hillary Clinton, and that was funny. All I am is a woman with a preference. Just as some men want to date size 2's or other men prefer fuller figured ladies or how other women prefer tall men or well built men. I just prefer a man who doesn't work for retail, whether it's a supermarket or shoe outlet. It's a pity how u as commentators have judged and painted the worst picture of me just because I have a preference. But please keep commenting I love it.
And for the record I've worked for retail. As a bakery assistant in a supermarket in my varsity second year. I met my recent ex boyfriend at the same job. A great guy.
Jay, It is harsh to judge someone when you have just admitted you also worked in retail,If you like him, think he is good looking then go for it
if you walk by this guy you may lose something special.
That is camouflage. Deception and spin. Classic Hillary tactics. add in denial. The only thing missing you haven't yet said, is ask us, what difference does it make?

Thy obscurities do not mask thee. We know who you are Hillary.

tongue banana elephant
Jay what does it matter so much what the guy does for a living just as long as it's legal?
A man isn't good enough for you because he only works in retail and in the next breath you're a critic of capitalism. Do you think anything through?
Cciny to be blunt I want him to do inspire me, have higher earning capability than me. I want him to tell me about about his day and love his job. And I want him to strive for more. If he owns the retail outlet then thats a bonus to me.
Some of you will never understand so I won't bother. But keep the comments coming
I am a doctor earning 6 figures a year and I own 7 retail stores on the side.

That good enough?

Ofcourse I will walk away too. uh oh hole
Because what I want is a good looking man and he is spending most of his time WITH ME, especially early in the morning, in the evening and night! professor laugh
Not sure your education did much to educate you on how the world works, I hate to disillusion you but most of the world's economy is in retail, the guy who owns Amazon is worth around $57 billion, but of no interest to you, he's in retail doh
in today's world being a teacher doesn't mean much its the intelligence behind the profession that really matters . some of the world greates women and men were not as educated as u may think some of the world's cleverest persons are people with secondary education.

in today's world there are a lot of educated fools.

ever heard the story of the man the woman refuses the man that really loves her?

she told him he was not good for her openly , he was so crushed.

and one day years after they met and she was boasting about the important job her husband now hold in a very large company and she went on and on telling him how well paid he was , he listened to her goes on and on about the man she refuses him for and only to found out that the man she refuse years before is now the owner of the company her husband i now working for .

this story is to say never under-rate no one because they may have less education than the other or because their job description is less than desirable, u might one day found that wonderful man u desire but he may turn out to be your worst nightmare.
just saying . but hey why not? go find your dream man .

just dont look down your nose at anyone doing so , or keep your small minded opinion to yourself .

as a teacher u sure need some lesson coz i am just a chef but there is no lesson u could have teach my kids .
There are many individuals who never received a college degree who went on to achieve much material/financial success in the world.

I can see that you are ambitious and you want the man you choose to feel the same. Nothing wrong with that.

But prejudging someone just by their current position in "retail" will unnecessarily limit you in selecting the best overall partner, as has been said, and is not fair to them.

Good luck. bouquet
Jaydene, I have to ask. Are you in PE or CT?
I'm tending to agree with the comments above, everyone has to start somewhere, either he'll climb the ladder or he won't, if he has what it takes to do that his qualifications or lack of will have little bearing, as an example, when I was 18 I started working for an American company which wanted to open branches in the UK, after 6 months I was made engineering manager of a branch in London, they never asked what qualifications I had, indeed nobody I've worked for ever asked, maybe things have changed but having a qualification means not a lot in business imo.
CT
Thanks all for your views. One that remains dominate is the fact that i may miss out on something good just because of occupation, which is a good point but the heart will always want what it wants, heart will override head . Upon reflection I guess I still remain the misunderstood chic. But still I rise.
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