what is really expected.
Thousands of people join these dating sites. You fill out you information in hopes of finding someone to connect with.After countless attempts on meeting and trolling through endless profile searches..to find oneself wondering why is this so difficult. Explaining a few lines about your likes and dislikes and being real about yourself eventually leaves you with an impression of discouragement. Describing your physical attributes in the profile bios is letting people know a little more about you in an attempt to find people with similarities and interests . Which generally turns out to be a dead end.
what do people really want? What is the hidden agenda? Why do so many hide behind their profiles? Why post something your not?
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Everybody else is wearing their best clothes too, so you don't stand out.
Your only chance of meeting somebody is if they accidently spill their drink on you, and it leads to conversation.
Or they might just spill their drink on you and keep going without noticing you.
If so, put out your foot and trip them
Well my dear, this isn't an attempt to flirt, because I live on the other side of 'the pond, but i've read your profile.
So I'm just giving you friendly advice..ok?
For me, your profile is just too demanding in what you expect in a man. Too many conditions..'if you can't do this..move on' if you are not like this, forget it!' etc most men would read all your stuff and just think..geez, I can't reach this woman's high expectations. You would have to be some really amazingly special lady to make such demands.
So, if you are not getting many mails or flowers, I suggest you drop all the conditions...give those guys a chance.
Be interesting to see what the other bloggers think
Human remains the most complex thing ever, so many W's. So much to learn to about any person that matters.
Not knowing and keep guessing has always been something exciting by nature.
I also believe for that special one you have to be very patience, if luck is at your side, time will only prove for the magic.
on an international site distance is a trouble.
on a local site being anonymous is more comfortable.
And not any two people can make it work....
that also doesn't work on a job application.
but i like it that you cut out some 'misery facts'. :-)
Love your pics, especially the Snapchat one with the stars around your head. You looked ethereal in that pic
Profile description is good.
Here's wishing you luck in finding ( or he finds you!
But just like the lottery, you cant win if you dont buy a ticket.
And keep a good visual firmly entrenched in your mind
Just maybe the laws of attraction will work in your favor.
On some points you are right that so many peoples are not what they say in their profiles ,on the other side there are some real genuine people as well and that's my own experience .
In 2008/I met a girl and we dated for 4 years (online and on the phone )she was more than she wrote on her profile .
Anyway , things happen when we less consider ,
You have a friend's request
wow, such quick response.