Just my two cents for the day........
Maybe there are just some of us who are meant to be single. You can spend years thinking there's someone for everyone but really, I don't think this is logical. Personally, I work so much (literally on call 24/7) to survive that I don't have the luxury of time to go out and meet new people....besides, I don't go far enough from home to meet anyone new really. I have a very demanding job that takes up most of my time....but without it, I could very easily slip into the homeless nothing where I once was and I don't even want to go there. I have the capabilities of doing work that is high in demand with good earnings....is it worth the solitude that surrounds this lifestyle? Well, I consider the alternative and I'd have to say yes. Maybe some day, my match will be just as much of a busy bee as myself and understanding for that reason...and maybe it could work....or maybe this match will be someone with more time who's willing to teach me what it's like to live simply again....who really knows honestly....just a bit of ranting here, been a lot on my mind lately and a lot of thoughts racing. I think a little mini vacation is in order before I burn the candle at both ends.
Sorry, I haven't been around....miss y'all
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When we cling to a notion that all our somebodies should be our forever bodies is when things become a tad complicated. Enjoy the next conversation with the cab driver, doorman, or whoever crosses the path of your busy life. In their conversation is a bit of somebody who has the potential...
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I'm always broke!
Hello Red
I agree with the other poster who said there is the right person for now, and the right person for longer term.
If we just think we are going to meet 'the one' then we are likely to be disappointed.
There are lots of 'the ones' for different times of our lives. We just have to recognise that and be grateful they were there during that time, rather than be disappointed that they are not there forever.
Every step I take feels like I have concrete blocks tied to my feet because of your disinterest in my worship of you.
If we just think we are going to meet 'the one' then we are likely to be disappointed.
There are lots of 'the ones' for different times of our lives. We just have to recognise that and be grateful they were there during that time, rather than be disappointed that they are not there forever."
Molly just took the words out of my mouth - as usual!
If that special smeone is out there, I know I will have to change to accomidate the situation, but change for the better, not the unknown. Been there done that. And until that day comes, I m going to appreciate things the way they are.