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I heard about Widows
They always talk about
Their Husband on any Occasion
If he is man or woman
But if he moves on to a new stage, he will slowly start thinking and talking about the present and future rather than the past.
we compared present with past
and mostly try to proves the past is better that present
He gets into the taxi, and the cabbie says, "Perfect timing. You're just like Frank."
Passenger: "Who?"
Cabbie: "Frank Feldman... he's a guy who did everything right all the time. Like my coming along when you needed a cab, things happened like that to Frank Feldman every single time."
Passenger: "There are always a few clouds over everybody."
Cabbie: "Not Frank Feldman. He was a terrific athlete. He could have won the Grand Slam at tennis. He could golf with the pros. He sang like an opera baritone, and danced like a Broadway star. And you should have heard him play the piano! He was an amazing guy."
Passenger: "Sounds like he was somebody really special."
Cabbie: "Oh hell there's more. He had a memory like a computer. He remembered everybody's birthday. He knew all about wine, which foods to order, and which fork to eat it with. And he could fix anything---. Not like me -I change a fuse, and the whole street blacks out. But Frank Feldman, he could do everything right."
Passenger: "Wow, some guy then."
Cabbie: "He always knew the quickest way to go in traffic and avoid traffic jams. Not like me, I always seem to get stuck in them. But Frank, he never made mistakes, and he really knew how to treat a woman and make her feel good. He would never argue back, even if she was in the wrong; and his clothing was always immaculate, shoes highly polished too. He was the perfect man! I never knew him to make a mistake! No one could ever measure up to Frank Feldman."
Passenger: "An amazing fellow. How did you meet him?"
Cabbie: "Well. I never actually met Frank. He died, and I married his widow"
The person we meet today wants to be part of the person you will be tomorrow - not dwell endlessly on a past they didn't share. If you talk only of your memories, you are saying to someone 'I don't want to move forward, right now I am happy where I am.'
And YES men AND women who moan endlessly about their exes are saying something as well - 'I am resentful, I am grudging, I am vindictive, I am unhappy where I am but I am staying here anyway'
Yikes
widow is for women that have lost their husband.