Ever Feel Like

Have anyone ever felt like that you are just tolerated by people but never truly liked or accepted?
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i liked this show 'due south'

so it is not as if Canadians are only 'tolerated' in the world.
don't feel so down
I don't like everyone and not everyone likes me. It doesn't bother me if it is acquaintances, but it probably is hard if it is family or someone you HAVE TO deal with a lot.

If that's not the case it doesn't bother me if some people give me a berth same as I would give people a berth I don't like. dunno

There are people with a similar outlook and lifestyle somewhere, it's just sometimes the case that it's not the people you grew up or went to school with. You can meet them later in life through groups with similar interests, jobs etc. conversing
Maybe its my illness talking but I feel that way a lot. I notice how when people talk to me, its somehow different than when they talk to others, like they are talking to a kid, or they tip toe around me, or will talk for a minute, then slip away as fast as they can. I get that a lot.
My son gets that a lot.

He's an intelligent, creative, insightful, loving person but suffers from a mental illness which tends to hinder him from forming normal everyday relationships with people.
I would love nothing more than to make a clean start, but truth be told, I don't think I could maintain a sensible lifestyle if I had to be responsible for myself. My family helps me now but if I were to leave, I would have to take care of my finances and health by myself and its been proven that I am pretty irresponsible when it comes to that.
Basically, I am a dependent and thats not a good thing.
Track, I can only talk from my experiences which is different.

I know that I'm responsible for my life and wellbeing. I have great support from home and I know I couldn't have achieved a lot of things in my life without that.

If there is something in my life that is negative, I will try to change it. It's not always possible to do this straight away, it might take a lot of work but I will do it. Being independent is something that is important for me - there were times I was dependent on other people and I couldn't have done without them. When these times were over, I worked on being independent and living my own life again.

If things are not going well for me, I sit my bum down and think what I can do myself to change this.

It's not the same for everyone, but if you are not happy, try to change something. If you have a great support network, can go back if things shouldn't work out?
Track, maybe decide to take control of one tiny piece of your life at the time. Nothing big or overwhelming.
Every tiny bit of control you have will make you feel better and more positive.
bouquet
I have tried to change things before but change don't come easy, especially when you live in a small community where everyone knows everyone. I can't afford to move out of here and thats a big problem for me.

Maybe I should just start drinking again and drink to the point of not being able to feel feelings anymore.
Track, give up if you want to, that is your perogative.

But you would feel better if you think positive rather than negative.

What I suggested has nothing to do with the community, small or large.

It is to do with you, and your self-improvement.

For example, if you don't do your own laundry right now, learn how to do it, and do it yourself.

Tiny changes add up.
Would drinking change anything or make you feel better Track? hug

Rome wasn't built on a day.
I do most of that stuff myself. I'm not giving up but I have to knock down some barriers. I have spent my whole life fighting for improvement but a person gets tired sometimes.
Track, well done on all you have achieved to date.

Give yourself a big pat on the back hug

Take a break, and then think of one other small thing you could do to improve your life

bouquet
I'm tired too Track, life is hard and sometimes it wears you down.


Then you get a crazy puppy and go What the hell was I thinking rolling on the floor laughing

Some days he is my reason for getting out of bed and it's soo worth it.
Good Morning Track,wave I have a number of people I know ,who are rather rude, and cold towards me. I m polite, and well mannered to everyone, and if these people can t handle that, I don t need them in my life. And neither do you need those types in your life.
I ve adopted the theory, I ll be a better person to those who appreciate me as a friend. A person doesn t need nonsense in thier world.yay
good morning, Track.
my advice? don't revisit something that didn't work the first times around.
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Track I am so sorry you feel so down at the momenthug

Every single person has something they excel at, but you have to look for it.hug

You might just have to accept the support you need to live your life, it's good you have a family to do that track, but however, do not get mad about it, just accept that is the way of things at the moment.

Find that special thing that you excel at track and go for that.teddybear teddybear
Yes Track I've felt that way since I was a child growing up into Adulthood.

At times I still feel that way.
Shine, you have the right idea innocent
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