What draws us to these sites?

Well speaking for myself it's boredom. Just the lack of excitement, not necessarily my own but my loved ones. They all esp. Mother would love for me to find love, have a significant other for the Holidays. It's like I'm a weirdo for not bringing men around. I've been married, I've been in love, I've had sex that was unbelievable. People say "Well you're pretty why don't you have someone in your life?" Well damn, I guess I'm on a break. I had love, sex, marriage, kids, ect. Maybe it's more that my soul is seeking. Certainly the right man can only enhance my growth. But those kind of men the universe /God always make us cross paths & recognize within each other something we need/want. Now there is a possibility that kind of connection can be made on here. But from my experience I have never met someone on any dating site that escalated into a relationship. I've made friends, u know pen-pals, texting types but that's it. But I know people that have met their spouse on sites. This is by no means to discourage anyone, I'm bored just wanted to write. And I may just get a friend to play the part of my man for the Holidays, make my family happy. Just because someone is alone does not mean lonely. I read a lot and write it's my passion, that takes lots of alone time. Good luck everyone, after all we get what we call forth. If you want love May God Bless You with it abundantly. If you want sex hope it's safe, wrap it up ya heard ;).