Narcissistic women are dangerous
Ok I am in a society where sex and romance before marriage is considered immoral by most women.And most men are forced to take the route of arrange marriage just to get laid or find love.The trial and error process of going through a few partners until you find your match does'nt exist.If a woman is even a little bit goodlooking chances are that she will be big headed ,playing hard to get -because there is going to be a long line of sexually frustated ,romance deprived men waiting for her.I happened to be one of those men I guess .I fell for a woman just like that.In the begining she was like a dream come true,nice and sensitive.But once she won me over ,her true identity emerged.She became emotionally inaccesible and started to send me signals that I have to work really really hard for her now.In the begining I got confused ;I did'nt know what was going on.After she had made me feel totally worthless and drained me emotionally;i finally realized what the problem was. It turned out, she is a psycho who was feeding off my emotions like a parasite feeding off blood. I have now decided to keep my distance from her eventhough the s*xual and emotional addiction that I felt for her is still there.She is still around asking for money.But its something that will lead to more problems so I have to stay disciplined.I have heard many horror stories of how some men got destroyed by women like that.
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Why the long face?
The only thing that makes sense to me that is in the process of getting closer to her....be default, you make yourself more vulnerable. Vulnerability is essential for developing a love condition. Perhaps she was waiting for you to become vulnerable....perhaps maybe some other man hurt her when she was vulnerable and it is payback time.
Better luck next time...
I am sorry that you had to make that experience. I know how difficult it is to internalise with mind and heart that a narcissistic person does simply not have the good social mechanisms that would make her or him understand how wrong she or he behaves towards others.
It is good that you decided to keep a distance, and the bigger the distance, the better
I am sorry you have been through this experience. I, too, had a devastating time with a narcissist. It had a detrimental effect not only on myself, but with our children also.
It may be beneficial to have time out for yourself, to recover, before leaping into another relationship.
On a positive note, you will now be able to recognise the signs of narcissism and avoid any future potential involvement.
All the very best....
You'd be wise to keep your distance, as I'm sure you know already.