Women!!
I should have taken my late grandfathers advice when he said that women were made to love; not to understand. Now, with hindsight, it makes perfect sense. After all, there is no logic in love either.
The source of my current confusion is my ex girlfriend. She broke up with me two weeks ago. This did not come as a complete surprise as we saw very little of each other, though we did enjoy each other when we were together. The surprise was more in the timing – she did it one day before her birthday.
Anyway, she phoned me the same evening to hear if I was OK; as if I was going to hang myself in the garage.
Then the next morning she called me to remind me that I promised her a night out on her birthday. Well, we went eating out, had a few drinks at a nearby pub and went home. She stayed for the night.
The confusing part is that while she regularly reminds me that we’re no longer an item, she now spends more time with me than ever before; and she no longer goes to those boring parties. When her friends call, she declines their invitations. She spends her weekends with me, doing the things I want to do. And I now have a key to her place.
Before she broke up she used to sleep over one night a week (normally on a Sunday or a Monday) and we went out Wednesday evenings. Since she broke up (22 November) until now, she only slept at her home three times. And every time she asked me to spend the night at her place. I accepted once.
She has a way to break surprises while I’m still half asleep. This morning she asked me if she can spend her holiday (16 Dec – 6 Jan) here with me. “But you are here in anyway”, I said.
“No”, she replied, “not like that. I mean coming here with a suitcase, as if I’m a thousand miles from home, not going home to change.” She’ll chip in with the food, she added. All this only a few hours since she last reminded me that we’re not an item anymore.
Well, try as I want, I cannot understand her train of thoughts. Maybe if I try not to understand, I eventually will.
You have a wonderful day.
Comments (52)
Indeed so.
Aww... a sad flower... just what the doctor ordered!
Thank you
"Oh, and I'm sure I felt a little pee run down my leg with laughter when I read this bit ( she is also going to chip in with the food !! ) if you can't afford to feed her should you really be bonking her??
Believe me, this gal knows exactly what she wants. I think she just does not want to tell me about it.doh
hug wine
If that's the case, she's playing headgames with you, Kat
phew!! you had me worried. I thought you were upset with me.
It's not likely that I would ask her. I'll probably get a load of BS because if she wanted to tell me what it's about, I think she would have done so. Besides, I'm maintaining a sort of I don't really care pose. She started it all and she can end it all.
Quite so, and the disturbing part is that she's won every round so far.
but Unla, I don't think her intentions are bad, she's being to kind for that.
And then there is something else that may be a factor. I only know her for a few months but to my best knowledge, I'm her first 'boyfriend' since her husband died three years ago.
Wasn't getting at you mate. Just couldn't understand your point. Sounded like you were complaining/ dissatisfied in some way!! I'd just sit back and enjoy it.. She sounds like she knows what she wants. Has she got a sister ?
Ah my dear friend, always good to start the day with a chuckle.
No, not complaining at all, just very confused because her actions are not corresponding with her words.