Why I am here.

Someone from here, a "regular" emailed me, and mocked me about me being in connectingsingles. That I have already have a man in life, and that if I am happy with him I should not waste my time here. As far as I know this site doesn't restrict those that are already in a relationship. Or that already change through time?

I would like to reconnect to the few friends I got to know here before, I tried emailing them but of course my location is restricted. The best way I can think of is the blogs. Do I have to explain myself more?

Bullies will always be bullies, pathetic really. Sad.
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I'm with you on that Shay.. can't stand judgmental people!

Don't you just hate the location filters sometimes!! frustrated

But I guess its probably for the best.. keeps the riff raff away I suppose..

Oh well.. to the blogs it is then! super
Hello Agirl no need to explain yourself as you have every right to be here.
Personally I am married and altogether have been here for about 15 years first was calling myself Hollandgirl.
Because I am the oldest? Don't know but so far no one has emailed me to get off.
There are others on here who have a steady boyfriend so?
Just ignore the bullies.
jenny
wave wave wave
IncubusBaig - Now I am the one who will ask what to call you. :)

I am currently in the Middle East (that is very clear) and many folks restrict mails from here. I don't blame them. You can understand me, and thank you for that.
Hello BritishColumbian (Jenny).

That is so nice of you. Thank you.
The middle east rocks, especially falafel.
Pat - ME rocks, literally. :) I am also a falafel fan.
Baig - That's better.

It must be complicated to be noble like Jon Snow. :)
I'm in a LDR at the moment. He reads the blogs all the time. When we decided to take our relationship to the next level, I did ask him if he wanted me to have my CS profile deleted and he said that there's no need for me to do that coz he knows how much I enjoy bantering here on the blogs and also enjoy trying to beat my own scores on CS games.

If it doesn't bother him the slightest, I don't see why should anybody be upset by my presence here. dunno
This site is as you say. But it is called Connecting Singles for a reason ? It's free. Can you complain ? It's a Woman man thing. Birds an bees thing. Maybe Facebook be more your thing ?
Dreamcatcher - Your man seems to be a nice, understanding guy.
Daears - Seen on comments above, I am not the only "not single" in here. Big bonus, CS is free, so I will visit the blogs as I please.
Few of the people I know here, I have on facebook. Most don't have, though.
I no facebook. But I have been polite and loving and made amazing friends here. They know who they are. Bless their beautiful souls.
Daears - Good for you.
Serene - Thanks for the input.
I agree with DreamCatcher.. thumbs up
If it doesn't bother your man the slightest, I don't see why should anybody be upset by your presence here.
Kalpataru - Thanks.
Girl Ive pondered on this and wonder, if someone's partner has no issues with them being on a singles dating site whether..


A. The relationship is not serious in their mind


B. They are doing the same thing


confused


Maybe I have too much time on my hands laugh but I considered my daughter and her husband .. I'm thinking blood would flow if either of them were seen hanging around on here laugh
Molly - Exactly what I do. handshake
Serene - As I have said I am here to reconnect with old friends. In my mind, a get together which was plan moons ago, since I am " a bit able" to travel unlike before which I shut and push everybody out. I left without saying goodbye, that was not nice of me then.

My boyfriend and I met in another dating site, which have some features too but not as extensive by the blogs and forums alike. Mom (his mom)- is okay with me on here. Since I have time to spare between learning their language and loving his son. She's in here too. With kids around (soon I hope) - that would be another story.
Girl

Thanks for accepting my views, I respect yours also handshake hug
Shay - definitely not easy being noble.. that's why I hardly ever try! laugh

I mean look where it got Jon Snow! I could get killed like him you know... blues

Oh wait a minute.. idea I do believe we have a witch among us! Maybe she could resurrect me too! grin
Serene - I appreciate it.
Baig - So you better stay away from the iron throne. laugh

A red witch/priestess, huh?
Oh I've got no interest in the Iron Throne.. I'd much rather live free with the wildlings and fighting white walkers.. or maybe join the Dothraki.. I'm sure I'd do fine there.. cool

As for the priestess.. we have a much prettier one here in Blogland.. smitten
Baig - Being a Dothraki sounds appealing, considering the harsh freezing weather in the north. But then there is the possibility that you'll go shirtless every minute of everyday in Dothraki land. laugh

The priestess must be a beauty, I bet, with or without her "necklace".
Yea I agree the north can be too cold for me too.. and I don't mind going shirtless.. I've worked hard for it and continue to do so.. flex So the Dothraki it is then! boxing

The priestess is just sooo dreamy... love
Baig - We are two of the millions GoT "crazies" . laugh

Good luck with the work out for a healthier you.
Bloodbrilliant - Right on. Thanks.
Bloodybrilliant - handshake I missed the "y". blushing
Shay - that we are!! grin I was starting to think people might be wondering what's wrong with these two.. laugh

Thanks for the wishes.. Do keep in touch wave
Hi Shay, You dont need to answer to anybody for being here. bouquet
Baig - See you in the seven kingdoms. :)
Lukeon - You are a sweety. hug
SHAY and BAIG

seems like GOT bloopers from the 6th Seasonrolling on the floor laughing
Imbackagain - Seems like for the 7th. Can't wait. wave
Heard they are wrapping it up this time!dancing
I heard they were gonna do 2 mini seasons.. 6 or 7 episodes each.. mumbling
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