Deja vu - oh, you're going to be important in my life

I know this has been blogged about before but - that odd moment when you look at a profile pic and there's a *ping* in your head.

Half the time of course you then realize the pic is familiar because it's been borrowed from a celebrity roll eyes

And sometimes you make friends, even meet, on CS and there had been no *ping* at all at the start.

But it happened with a few profile pics. One was female and eventually became a buddy - one was male and when he then wrote to me I thought ooh, I knew the minute I laid eyes on you and where is this going? daydream Well, nowhere, as it turns out, just buddies.

And quite often nothing ever happens at all - the pinger leaves CS or is a bit of a prat, or puts up a different pic and you're like oh no, ew sigh

Once I hurried off to look up a profile and tchah, he was in his forties and looking for females aged 18 to 25. So the ping is not always true.

But one day, maybe, I will get the *ping* and it could be a true *ping*, a *soulmate approaching* warning.

Ooh, look! A flying pig!
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I know exactly what you mean Biff... smitten
Sometimes I get the 'Ping'
Sometimes I get the 'Pong'

Must be the pigs...laugh bouquet wine
Ahh flying pigs... reminds me of Pink Floyd..

"And any fool knows a dog needs a home, A shelter from pigs on the wing"

They were legendary!!!
I often forget that this is a dating website...it works to my benefitsgrin


But hey, Ping is a girl and Pong is trying to catch up with herdunno
Elegs

That is the most ironic thing about being here...ask ways looking out for the inevitable and sometimes it can be really fascinating yay

Sometime it can be like confused doh
What the heck is happening here????laugh
Jaykurs, I mustn't be much of a pinger help

Anybody I've dated off the site has been faceless uh oh

I must be a longer.
Seriiiiiiiii... pointing



Oh wait... sorry that's how I greet Mimi... doh
Molly - a longer or a ponger? still fighting the tablet, I see grin

Oddly enough when I ventured cautiously onto the forums you were the first person I consciously registered and looked out for in the forum community. The blur is unique. I didn't ping so much as think 'I will learn one day what that woman looks like'

Psychic 101. applause
Hahaha..follow the blur. Sounds like a game laugh
biff.......the only ping i get........from women on here.....is when they throw a brick at me....misses and pings ,,,,,,off the wall....?????blues crying rolling on the floor laughing doh grin wave
Mengjoumetdiesemelsdanvreetdievarkejou... This translates beautifully in Google Translate....laugh
Tru, I refuse to believe women throw bricks at YOU, we all adore you flirty

Why, if they ever did, you'd know bouncing bricks don't make pinging noises laugh

I know. I've thrown a few. uh oh
Biff,

I strongly distrust a member who is unable to compose more than , "hi,"
but a few manage,"hi,how are you?"

There's a silver lining....somewhere
Ya got me Boet I even tried. sigh

Then I added spaces and got Mix your with the bran then eats the pigs your

Um - what? confused
Prof - enjoy the experience for what it was? Yup!
unlao......sorryyyyyyyy. i built a bar/b/q........roll eyes grin
rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up one day your ping will come (sung to tune of some day your prince will come) frog
Biff... "High five" right back at ya!! peace

Fortunately/unfortunately I don't have many "pings".. not that kinda guy.. blushing

But you will surely know when and if something happens.. I'm terrible at hiding that kinda stuff.. grin
Baig - you do tend to broadcast on a fairly wide frequency when your eye has been caught. grin
Biff.. Hahaha.. yea that's something I'm trying to work on.. just goes against my personality I guess.. help
Oh Tru comfort Her loss, our gain.

So that's why you tease the saffers, and know your biltong from your droewors. Aha!

We like those who use our words, and some of us are lovely. Well, in our own bracing way uh oh
biff.......theres no gain,,,as i see it......I did love her.....very much.....no joke.....hug hug never mind.........pete.
Tru.. hang in there tough guy.. hug


What doesn't kill you makes you stronger ey.. flex
incurb/.....thanks mate......cheers ....hope your day goes well.......thumbs up handshake
Biff

Hiya

Early days when I joined cs ....all pings were nailed when found to be in a message restricted zone!

Has stopped believing in pings .......became a fan of siren alarms
Dishwasher?, how posh.snooty
IBA - siren alarms sound wonderful! I've never - oh, okay, heard a couple of warning klaxons in my time here laugh
Pedal, darling, I AM posh. snooty

Also incredibly lazy and hate washing dishes so when a local builder was refitting a kitchen, appliances and all, and I got my second-hand dishwasher for £30, yes, serious attack of poshness happened on the spot laugh
I only have enough dishes, cutlery, etc for two(thinking ahead), that way washing up is easy.thumbs up
Oooh ooh Un I got one! Does this look familiar?

i am a Christian, I am straight forward, strong willed and I do not smoke. ...Am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfortable with,

Anyway he thinks we're a perfect match, I tell you. Perfect Match. The smoking, pah, wave it away. He saw my profile and naturally, he fell in love. daydream

If he had said there was a ping, you know what? I might even have replied. After all anyone can get confused about a woman and his feelings. Happens to us all.
awwwww,biff.....your good people........hug hug ......perhaps i should,nt have mention it.....but its good sometimes to get it off my chest......(safety.valve)....still enjoy your blogs.....you have a talent.....thumbs up hug
Pedal, easy but often. You must spend half your life slaving over your kitchen sink. comfort

I could entertain six with ease, more if some of them liked each other enough to share cutlery and crockery grin
Hey, Tru, you'e talking to the woman who let rip in 3, count them 3, blogs when her CS fling ended. I'm a GREAT believer in letting it all out, lancing the boil, buttering the burn, etc etc.

I should have known that fling would end, though. No ping at all, just the beeps of a truck reversing ready to start a run laugh

No regrets, and lessons learned. Oh, and I closed that profile and opened another. Anyone who wants to be my 3-blog crisis has an open field grin
Isn't it spelled Deja' vu? Is this a S. African thing, this ....... spelling thing?grin
Long time since that happened but know the feeling. There is a like and a pm waiting....maybe today is the day.laugh
Is it from Pakistan Ek's?uh oh
Pedal - doh

Thank you laugh
Well, Eks? popcorn
Pedal....no but makes no difference
Biff....thumbs down as usual.
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