meeting people the first time

so people tell me is there some big secret to getting another person on here to actually agree to meet and see where things go is there something im missing that i dont understand everyone talks physical appearance but doesnt there have to be more to keep that person interested in you pleas help me out here thanks hmm seems like we all in the same boat going in circles but never finding the dock lol
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Your best bet would be a CS dating event in Fairfield,Illinois or statewide when travelling weather improves.
Good Luck.handshake maybe valentine's day theme.libraries will book a meeting room for free usually.
Ask women to bring their favorite romance novel,or feature a brief romantic movie trailer-
LaLa Land....Patti wave
Good advice Ash,............wave
Obviously first meetings should be done at a public place.Always have a back up plan or escape route just in case the meeting turns out to be a dud.

Neither party should ever agree to meet at one another's homes.
Also go to the meeting in separate vehicles.
Putting up a blog does increase your chancesthumbs up
Of course there has to be more than physical.

If you hit it off in other important, hard to find ways, the person will see it is special and that will ignite the desire to meet.

However, I notice in your introductory profile blurb you state that won't relocate, and no discussion.

So you are assuming a lot - before the relationship even starts.

It can be a very big deal to pull out all roots and move to another place, one you may not desire even to visit.

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I think I was newborn when I meet people for the first time !

POP went the bag and there they were.
Doctors and nurses all in somewhat of a kerfuffle roll eyes
Heavens knows what it was all about. dunno
If somebody wants to meet you, they'll meet you.

Whether they instigate it, or accept your invitation.

If somebody doesn't want to meet you, it's because, well, they don't want to meet you. Don't waste time wondering about the latter.
wave " there is some big secret" ......Don't have a clue what that means.
Peds, I was hoping for the answer to that too.

But then there isn't one, so dunno
Since he is so attentive to his blog, he is not going to find out either. Of course he could have just
posed the question to those people that told him.dunno
Roy, I have no intention of relocating either. It is better to be upfront. Then everybody knows where they stand.
Nope, nothing wrong with putting that in your profile, as it is upfront and honest.
Nothing wrong with it, I wasn't sure if he was contacting people out of state.

It just seemed kind of off putting when you haven't even met them yet...no biggie. laugh teddybear bouquet
have met a few an best way is in a public place and don't be expecting to much ..think its better if you meet by accident really
what i meant by big secret is there a right or wrong way to get a woman actually to agree with meeting up i try not to be to pushy as far as that goes you know talk with her awhile before suggesting that but it always seems to go awry and yes i agree with the ones who said it should be in a public place im not looking for a secret hiding place im upfront and open yay
your right there lol it just hard for me to read vibes into emailing each other on here sometimes the email can be taken out of context as to what the person really meant then you have all sorts of problems if you know what i mean
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