Basic Human Needs
If a woman is married to an uncommunicative man, she has the choice of talking to herself, not very satisfactory, or else sharing with friends, or even strangers. That is considered acceptable to all. Right?When a man is married to a nonsexual wife, he has the choice of doing it with himself, not very satisfactory, or else doing it with friends, or even strangers. That is considered acceptable to all. Right?
Wrong.
It's not acceptable to all, very few indeed.
The woman may not want to leave her marriage because she doesn't want to break up the family, especially if the kids are small, but at least she has an outlet for her frustrations.
The man may not leave his marriage because he doesn't want to break up the family, especially if the kids are small, but he is left with no outlet for his frustrations.
Sex is a form of communication, a basic human need, especially to men. Just as sharing a conversation is to women.
Does society place unfair restrictions on one human need over another?
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But if the kids are your world, you may not want to not see them for at least half the time, as in a joint custodial arrangement.
To test for yourself, simply enter a business and state that you need to go to the toilet. Usually folks will show some concern and point to where the toilet is.
To confirm peoples prejudices, go back to the same business a week later and state that you really want to whack off. Depending what sort of business it is, but usually they'll ask you to leave.
Aren't you
I think we have got a problem here.....
You see, I love both. Yakity-yak
Please help...
Itchy, it's a question, a topic to think and talk about
Map, thank you for making it easier for me to understand
Scotty , what if the marriage was not a total disaster in other ways? She is a good mother, is supportive in some ways, but just is still cold woman and won't make love to you?
Seri, I need that tea before reading yours!
Is there another kind?
BRB
As with men.
Map, I think my answer to JJ part answers yours?
To me they're is none, one is a verbal outlet the other, physical.
The way I see it, sometimes its alright to raise your voice to your partner but never your hand.
Kind of the same thing is it not?
I need them to give time to me, not throw money in my direction.
Barry's is so cork like
Many are brought up to not communicate verbally as women are.
Sometimes the way they can show their affection and love, and pure emotion is in the act of lovemaking.
It could work in reverse just as easily.
some need to know how to heat up the oven before putting in the tart
I reiterated a couple of times that it could be the other way around.
Put that in your pipe and smoke it!!
And yes, than you for repeating my question
Now your answer?
And sung by her husband, who's in love with someone else.
So breaking up is the only way to go in your books?
Molly, Maybe yes, however thats why garages sell Ferrero Rocher and cheap flowers so men have a way of calming situations down and probably get a leg over for buying the errant missus the gifts, this can kick start the relationship for a short time.
The marriage is over.
They have to work together to hammer out a peaceable and workable family solution, but the marriage itself is over.