California, USA

Feb 2017

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Jealousy

My boy friend is very jealous . He's jealous of the time I spend with my kids .He's jealous of the few men friends I have .can jealousy go away with time or is it just part of his genetics ?

it's a turn off

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Proficiency1●Montego Bay, Saint James Jamaica

Feb 3, 2017●1,188 Comments

Jealousy is healthy when the person can maintain a balance in his attitude whenever the feeling of jealousy surfaces.

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Lukeon●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Feb 3, 2017●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

Hi, it just could be possible that he is hiding behind the door? As they say the best method of defense is to attack.

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Orifency he gets mad if I answer a text or phone call from my kids when I'm with him .he says it's his time with me .hes a very jealous person which is turning me off .

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Lukeon this could be very true

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

None smoker well that too ::frustrated:

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oldblue54●kaitaia, Northland New Zealand

Feb 3, 2017●76 Blogs●1,148 Comments

No disrespect but you have posted this same blog at least 4 times ...
Are you expecting a different answer this time ?

Dump the guy and move on or accept the relationship for what you get out of it

JMHO

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unlaoised●Twilight zone, Wicklow Ireland

Feb 3, 2017●1,614 Comments

This is the same guy you've posted about previously, yes?

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

My apologies I will remove the blog

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Unloised yes he's the same guy .Indidnt realize I posted a blog on This topic .sorry

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Lukeon●Port Elizabeth 6000, Eastern Cape South Africa

Feb 3, 2017●484 Blogs●7,155 Comments

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This guy is really working on your nerves

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#11

Must be

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unlaoised●Twilight zone, Wicklow Ireland

Feb 3, 2017●1,614 Comments

#12

No need to remove it, Abby...I was only asking if it's the same dude.

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#13

It's not the same blog .but it's the same ole complaints

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Seri2016●unknown, Cork Ireland

Feb 3, 2017●6 Blogs●769 Comments

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Jealousy is a pure waste of time,bad for health and relationship.

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#15

Seri your right .its got to the point that I don't want to hardly see him . Maybe I'm slowly pulling away .

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Proficiency1●Montego Bay, Saint James Jamaica

Feb 3, 2017●1,188 Comments

#16

Abby

That kinda behaviour is dangerous.

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#17

Proven your my heart tells me you're right .i don't even know why I stay lately

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Gentlejim●unknown, Wisconsin USA

Feb 3, 2017●705 Blogs●4,176 Comments

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Hi Abby!

Doesn't sound like he is very tolerant! In a relationship/marriage, tolerance is a MUST! Personally, I would move on from this guy! JMHO

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Seri2016●unknown, Cork Ireland

Feb 3, 2017●6 Blogs●769 Comments

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Of course, it's not particularly attractive and at some point it could become quite dangerous Abby

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

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Gentaljim I hear you I have a fear of being alone but at the same time my feelings are diminishing for him

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Gentlejim●unknown, Wisconsin USA

Feb 3, 2017●705 Blogs●4,176 Comments

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If you think this guy is dangerous, drop him like a bad habit! Put some distance between you and him!

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#22

I have out put some distance towards us . I've even talked to him about it . How can you be jealous of me for talking or texting my kids when I'm with him ?

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Gentlejim●unknown, Wisconsin USA

Feb 3, 2017●705 Blogs●4,176 Comments

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I agree Abby!

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Roughroadergirl●Harrogate, North Yorkshire, England UK

Feb 3, 2017●3 Blogs●529 Comments

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Hi Abby

this immediately has warning bells all over it for me. Jealousy of flirtation, or another man paying you some attention is normal. Even the most self confident person will feel a pang of jealousy if someone was to go near their lady. But jealousy of your children is not healthy. You created those amazing beings and they will always be there and a priority in life regardless of their age. Love is limitless and there is enough for all, it's not about competing for or jealousy of it. Why should or would you allow his insecurities to affect how he treats you. Potentially this could grow and his jealousy could be projected onto other elements in your life. If he doesn't see he has a problem or is unwilling to accept you have a life outside of your relationship then I'm sorry but he needs to be shown the door....value yourself and what your gut is telling you. If you have blogged about it before then you know it's wrong for you to have to justify your friends and family, , you just need to find the strength to make the change

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Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Feb 3, 2017●5,763 Comments

#25

Sorry Abby I would turn him off. for good that is, that kind of intense jealousy is dangerous. Manipulations come to mind, you are stronger than that, kids come first and he should respect that, unless your kids are grown ups that is, then they should respect mums private time. OOOOHHHHH doesn't life get complicated

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ScottyVan●Bracknell, Berkshire, England UK

Feb 3, 2017●216 Blogs●2,833 Comments

#26

Get with GJ, great guy,.............

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#27

Roughroadgirl thank you so much for your comment .my kids are first over any and everything .theres more to the jealousy .Im thinking really hard about all of this.Its falling apart because of his jealousy .

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#28

red my kids are adults my daughter is my best friend and a mommy girl she can text me or calll me anytime day or night .he gets upset from a test .this is so old .as I've stated I think part of it is I'm scared to be alone

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#29

Scotty gentle Jim sounds like a great guy . Funny thing I grew up not far from where he lives lol .one guy is enough for me .

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Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Feb 3, 2017●5,763 Comments

#30

Oh dear me Abbey kids or adult kids have to learn and parents have to let go. Hard task but it is a hard world, I doubt your daughter would be pleased bessy friends or not if you telephoned when she was in the middle of mmmmm

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Feb 3, 2017●25 Blogs●714 Comments

#31

Red your funny .im just trying to give a nice example of his jealousy He's jealous of my kids all of the time .when my husband passed away my kids and I grew a tight bond which no man can break .If I were doing the deed I wouldn't answer or text silly

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