Way of comunication

I believe for some who used to work in a company consist of some expatriates will face a communicating issue.

I am working on a accompany that allow me to meet , deal and communicate with many expatriates from India, Pakistan , Japan, and Korea.
And I think it is not easy to deal with them. Mostly on communicating issue.
Sometimes what we mean opposite with what they mean. confused

One day, I got assignment from my Japanese Superior. He asked me to make a document export.
I have done it and only awaiting for his signature. When he asked the document, I said it had done already . But he said, it had not done yet. I said, yes it had done already. Again, He said it had not done yet.
Finally, I knew what he means. For me "had done" mean I have already finished made the document, But for him, "had done" means the document already made and included his signature. W/o his signature that mean had not done yet. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Following one speaker of " Global Leadership Summit 2016 " Mrs. Erin Meyer;
" The way you communicate , affected the level of clarity that you give and hope to be accepted when dealing with others." professor

And.Asia continent included on High Context communicating which are implicit, layered, and nuanced .wow
I think I face a big challenge of communication ahead... doh
Any suggestion to help me deal and do a better communication with my expatriates?

Wish you all a nice weekend... teddybear wine
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Comments (10)

Hello, Mei;

Nice to read your blog again, hope all is fine with you. wine hug
@phoenix,
Am doing fine and still single :))
hope you are keep strong to continue
your life.

Happy Lunar Year (even a little bit late)cheering
Yes small cultural discrepancies can be huge mountains in global Communications,
Diplomacy is the best course of action. wave
I guess the moment you realise you are not on the same page, it is a good idea to ask them exactly what them mean laugh
@nonsmoker

Diplomacy.., a good advice.
But sometimes am lack on diplomacy, am more straight
to the point rolling on the floor laughing wave
@mollybaby,
U r right.
I do better ask him when i met such situation.
This is also a challenge for me when we have to deal with
superior that much much older than us : wave wine
Meilin wave

It is often quite difficult when we communicate in a language that is not our mother tongue. English is not my first language and I try as much to get my point across or when I am communicating with others to make them understand what I am trying to say. I make mistakes and am glad that I am corrected as I go along. And I can feel you Meilin cos I have the same problem here...hug cheers
Hi my friend Meiling,

An approach I have used successfully is: "So that I understand you, are you saying blah blah blah? They will say yes or no! Then you know what to say or do!

I wish you the best!thumbs up
@brother jim
Thanks for your advice.handshake
Have a nice weekend
wine wave
Meiling,

You have a nice weekend also!hug wine
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